CCAP refuses to officiate wedding of Malawi Prison chief:  Mist over divorce with Mcheka Chilenje

CCAP Blantyre Synod has refused to officiate a wedding of chief commissioner of prisons Kennedy Nkhoma with a new fiancé on accusation that he did not divorce her wife, deputy speaker of parliament Esther Mcheka Chilenje Nkhoma.

Nkhoma was previously married to Mcheka Chilenje but the high profile marriage did not last due to what sources described as bad blood between the wife and her step children.

The Prison chief lodged at St James CCAP Church in Blantyre for marriage officiating ceremony but the church could not proceed, saying it does not promote bigamy.

As it were, wedding of the year: Kennedy Nkhoma and Esther Mcheka Chilenje

As it were, wedding of the year: Kennedy Nkhoma and Esther Mcheka Chilenje

Nkhoma submitted to the church a Marriage Divorce Certificate (MDC) Number 108 of 2012 as requirement for the church to start announcing the wedding.

Nyasa Times understands that African customary law marriages act states that marriage can only be dissolved when two parties have been heard but apparently Mcheka Chilenje feigns ignorance of the divorce proceedings.

Investigations indicates that on 4 February, 2014, the lawyer for  Mcheka Chilenje  wrote the Blantyre Principle Resident Magistrate Innocent Nebo informing him that lawyer ( Wapona Kita) would not be available for the case which was scheduled for 6th February 2014 because he was attending another high profile case at the High Court .

The lawyer requested that the “the matter be adjourned to the later date that would be agreed by all the parties.”

Mcheka Chilenje insists that she ever attended any divorce case from any conventional court.

Nkhoma and his legal team however proceeded to obtain the divorce certificate in the absence of the other party which is against rules and procedures of natural justice.

Chilenje expressed ignorance that her husband is having a Marriage Divorce Certificate as she never appeared at any court for divorce proceedings with Kennedy Nkhoma.

“The issue of marriage has never been resolved before  any forum, not even before Ankhoswe let alone the church which blessed our marriage, to me that’s news,  am just hearing it from you,” she told Nyasa Times.

When put forward to her that the certificate has been presented at St James CCAP as evidence that she is no longer in marriage with her, Mcheka Chilenje said:  “Please I have already told you I am not aware of that.”

When Nyasa Times asked Nkhoma how he obtained a divorce certificate in absence of his wife, he said: “I am not a lawyer to explain all legal finer details.”

Session Clerk at St James church of Blantyre Synod, Mike Uko confirmed that the Church is not officiating the wedding as requested by Nkhoma.

Sources within the church alleges that the church raised its eyebrows regarding t the manner and reasons Nkhoma  transferred the wedding ceremony  from Zomba CCAP where he is based and why he preferred to officiate the wedding at Blantyre St James CCAP Church.

Reverend Mmangisa of Zomba CCAP, in an interview confirmed Kennedy Nkhoma is still a member of Zomba CCAP but denied having given transfer letter to him to wed at St James CCAP.

In 2007 Nkhoma and Esther Mcheka Chilenje tied a knot in what was billed as wedding of the year which was attended by the former president late Bingu wa Mutharika.

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106 thoughts on “CCAP refuses to officiate wedding of Malawi Prison chief:  Mist over divorce with Mcheka Chilenje”

  1. Mango do says:

    I agree totally with no 91 ….another analysis is that the so called new woman of the failed wedding must be a prostitude which in Chichewa is HULE .Looking at the Trent and behavior of Kennedy if the woman was straight she would not have continued with her relationship with Kennedy realizing that whatever Kennedy is doing to Esther today,Tomorrow it will be her turn.If Kennedycan Manage to toucher and be cruel to a high profiled woman like Esther what can stop him to do the same to a mare woman of no tittle???? Mahule amayesa ngati achenjera akamanamizana Kuti ndiye a bwino kuposa mwini mwamuna.Looking The way I follow this story people believe me or not even if this so called new woman get married to Kennedy the marriage will not last not even six months.Prostitutes ,prostitutes learn to search men of your own not snatching other people’s husbands.Tsoka Tsoka kuliyamba Dala .Rememeber there is God who is watching you.Esther and Kennedy made their vows before God and if Kennedy has decided to betray God now the Concequences will follow him …,..ohooooooooooo!!!!!!

  2. Gama says:

    If you analyze the whole story here you will find out that its focusing on three parameters here the the church the man and the woman,
    1. The church refused Kennedy to mary another woman because he is still married to Esther .
    2. Kennedy claims Esther is not good for him and he wants another one .
    3. Esther has been saved by the church to venture into the Mitala trend behind her back there by she want a proper divorce.

    Please tell me what is difficult here?

    You all know the church won’t allow Mitala to happen because they don’t believe in that.
    You all know Esther has no problems to divorce Kennedy and she is not in any relationship with any man.
    You all know Kennedy is the one who want to marry and at the same time want to divorce.

    The issue here is left in Kennedy’s hands, if he mean it that he want the other woman then let him follow the right procedures here,,, but if he want kutchuka aaaah akulu mwatchuka komanso.. Think and think deep because kutchuka kuli pawili;
    1, kutchuka for the good things and everyone likes you and be proud.
    2, kutchuka for the bad things like kupambuka/kubiba pakati panseu mkugwidwa everyone will regret knowing you kennedy.

    My advise is do the right procedure and move on.

  3. Kasambala says:

    Iwe 89 ndiwe mbuzi kwabwasi u think if Esther would want to live with Kennedy wouldn’t do that,,,, the issue here is not weather he will marry traditionally or not,,, untie the knot first from Esther then go ahead with his womanizing character,, that’s why the church found it wrong to go ahead with zauchimozo they found a fault in it,,,, poor you 89 thinking like mkhumba who just focus zakutsogolo and not thinking of where you r coming from,,, Esther is Good I tell you you cannot even compare her with you because the way you r Analysing her it seems mukusowa yesu akulu/achemwa,,, whatever you do remember Lord is watching us

  4. HMT says:

    iwe ncheka usatinyasepo apa you think kennedy olo atati asapange ukwati with his new found love angabwelele kwa iwe? you are too full of yourself. yes this kennedy has his own short falls but nawe umafuna azikupanga worship ndiwe kamulungu ka ku Nsanje kapena? iwetu usova ife ukwati timanga olo traditional tikavina nawo. *patseni khazibeti chill ndimwe*

  5. sister of Esther says:

    Nkhani ya ana? Esther kuzunza ana?? Am I looking at the KN that the MG has entrusted to reform even hard core prisoners in Malawi? And he failed to resolve this petty household issue?? Questionable integrity KN! and went publicly to announce such reasons for damping wife? Questionable agenda KN!!! Dubious divorce certificate? Questionable act KN!!

    QUESTION!!! Now if Esther can look after adopted children, all the children in her constituency (as MP), in Malawi (a FDS) how can she fail to look after 3 children of her beloved, legitimate husband KN?

    Who doesn’t know that KN damped Esther because of a bunch of easy going, low class, substandard women? Esther is a high profile woman of integrity, strong, courageous, hardworking and God fearing. That is why she continues to prosper and Mulungu ali mbali yake. God is fighting her wars. KN wamuzunza Esther for a long time and God has been watching. iii abale Esther mpaka kumalira mu room ku college mayeso akukalemba mawa? chifukwa cha KN, mmalo moti KN azimpanga encourage! Amafuna alephere? No! God did not allow that. Instead God has always been there for Esther and she passed well her credible BSc and she has been progressing ever! Jehova Jire has provided and no one will scatter! Esther possess your possessions in Jesus name!

    No. 81 iwe! you seem to have a personal agenda with Esther! Mxxxiiiiest ! All you said is not true and aimed at demeaning Esther’s character! Esther as no 78 said was married once and KN was her second. I could give you name of the first husband (but i keep it for obvious reasons). What is wrong getting married twice if it is God’s will? How many people married several times before and whose business is it? How has this become your business???? Esther has two beautiful daughters yes both from the same father and from legitimate matrimonial home! I could tell you their names (but i also keep them for obvious reasons). As regards her education with Bunda, she has a credible BSc, graduated 2013 and if you want yours go get it , as long as you work hard like she did. You don’t litter our ears with cheap propaganda because smart things will always outlive. Some of us we don’t frequent these columns but we get sick when we see such cheap propaganda on large media as this from people who seemingly just want to advance their personal agenda by tarnishing other peoples image .

  6. GRM says:

    Osapanga jelous. Mayiyu ngokongola. Bamboyu ndi hule. Kodi mkazi akalekedwa ndi mwamuna oyendayenda ndiye kuti mayiyo asakwatiwe kuopa muziwerengera amuna omwe wakwatiwa nawo? Mwamunayo anali nazo zibwenzi ali pabanja. Nanga titi banja kutha iye wapeza kale omanga nalo banja pompopompo?

  7. Alison says:

    Mmadziwa kale adzima i ozindikira apakoleji. Let her exercise her rights and freedom.

  8. original KK says:

    Chalaka bakha nkhuku Singatole . Mwa ncheka a chakwamba analephera ndeno a Kennedy .

  9. mwana wa nyau says:

    Ena you are just comenting ignorantly. Kenedy ndiovuta kwambiri. Even Ku ntchito and is a big crook, lier, and he potrays to know everything. He is a lawyer, pastor, oipamba nyimbo, mfumu, judge, doctor, odziwa chilichonse, ophunzira kwambiri, yekha ndi Captain waku army, osilira chili chonse including akazi a ma juniors ake. He is everything. Pa zinthu zomwe amanena 95% limakhala bodza and 5% zoona. Boma likanafufunza kuti alibe mlandu wa forgery apa? Marriage Divorce certificate of year 2012. Booking milandu ku khoti 2014!!!!! Eeeeeh, anzathu zimatero? Munthu odziwa malamulo komanso oyenera kupangaupheldalibusy kulakwitsanso gravely? Sipofunika 14 years apa IHL?

  10. Chilungamo says:

    Langa ndi funso: Mukuti Esther ndiopemphera ndipo owopa Mulungu ndipo si hule:
    Zinatheka bwanji munthu opemhera zoona nkukakwatiwa ndi hule la mgonagona Kennedy? Mulungu wake uti angakupase Nkhoma as husband ngati ndiwe opemphera?

    Ife timamuziwa Nkhoma, anayamba kalekale kuyendayenda asanakwatire even Esther enanu may be you dont know?

    Secodnquestion:

    Esther anakumana naye kuti Kennedy kuti afunsirane? Definitely malo olakwika komwe anali Esther’yo kokasaka amuna, definitely not in church!!!

    Why did Nkhoma not marry from his own tribe with all those beautiful women with manners?

    Yankho: Nkhoma likes easy women, just put it he likes Mahule. Esther knows this herself after being in bed with him for a short time. Nde tell me what does this tell you about Esther?ayiwa ngothamanga kungoti amapanga mobisa kwambiri not open like achina Kaliati, Loveness Gondwe, Matilda Katopora ku parlianment etc. Trust me, soon you will hear akwatiwanso, just to hide uhule……………!!!

    I want wina andiyankhe mafunso atatuwa mwachilungamo or Esther ayankhe……

  11. Bro of Esther says:

    Ine ndi brother wa Esther wobadwa nyumba imozi. A Sis anagwa ali ndi vuto losamva ndikukula mtima nde banja lililonse sangakharemo. Moti ndikurembamu sagwirizana ndi amai, tonsefe ma brother ake ndi azibale onse. Pena amatha kukana kuwalandira Amai akangopita ku nuymba kwake ati asanamuuze . Esther ine ndinaziwa kale sangakhale ndi Kennedy, amafuna azilamulira even mwamuna vuto lake ndilimenero amatha kukukalipira wankulu ngati ndiwe mwana nde Nkhoma ndiochangamuka sangalore kupangidwa control.

    I fear kuti mlongo wangayu ngati sasintha mapeto ake azakhala owawisa, anthu amakukonda uli ndi ndalama koma ndalama zikazatha, ife tokha azibale ake tizayima naye. Nyumba mwake amangolora azinzake andalama basi ife sitingapiteko or.

    Ndipo ndimadabwa akamati ndiopemphera, kaya behaviour yake ndi munthu opemphera zikusiyiranathu. Asis musinthe chonde kukura sayimbira ng’oma,,,khazikikani lerani ana osamayang’anayang’ananso amuna ena kukwatiwa muli inuyopo. Tikumva zoti mwapezanso mwamuna wina chonde siyani mwakula. Momwe ndanena ine ndi mlongo wanga ameneyu, koma sindingamurankhule face to face ndangopezerapo mpata pa nkhaniyi mwena ena nkudabwa bwanji sindikumulangizira kunyumba . zikomo nonse.

  12. Mai Wa Esther says:

    No 78 ndiwe wa fake ESTHER AMAGWIRIZANA NDI AZIBALE AKE????? NEVER. She has no manners for your information, she is at best sooo arrogant. SHE HAS 3 DAUGHTER ALL FROM DIFFERENT FATHAERS AND KEN IS NUMBER 4 TAKE IT LEAVE IT, SHE IS CHEATING YOU THAT SHE ADOPTED THE OTHER DAUGHTERS hahahaaaa!!! Azingovulira amuna ambirimbiri.

    Even if we take that Nkhoma is the second husband, then when she gets married again, akhala wachinga mwamunayo??? hehehee!!! Nde ngati mzimai mmozi akukwatiwa ndi amuna atatu, onse kumulowesa, kuhahaza ndi ulemu umenewu? Don’t support hule linzako laku Nsanjeri…………!!!!

    Gwanda gave her that Nsanje seat in 2004 in exchange for…..UYISOVA Ndihule esther basi even if you defend her. Mkazi wa ulemu amakwatiwa kumozi basi, nabereka wana konko nasunga banja. Can you tell us what went wrong with her first marriage? Definitely she is not marriage material mwano mayiwa too much.

    Deggree yaku Binda ukuziwa momwe anayitengera? Ask ana pa campass pa Bunda…UYISOVA!!! Successful woman??? successful down there in successfully undressing for lecturers, …hehheee….

  13. Adzafunika says:

    Akennedy mukufuna pa Golide kodi.

  14. Karimu says:

    Correction Esther has only two beautiful biological daughters and two adopted children fro needy families and she was married only once kennedy is the second husband .please don’t exaggerate things if you don’t know things just keep quite.Have respect to this Hon intelligent lady only that she rushed marring Brutu ,womanizer and cruel man! Whether you like it or not Esther is beautiful ,successful and God fearing woman .Many people know Kennedy’s behavior and Kennedy Sagwirizana ndi abale ake ena amagwirizana ndi ma sister ake Mahulenso who have been mis leading him to this downfall which Kennedy is in now

  15. Dr soko says:

    Iwe number 70 sukumudziwa kennedy kuti ndi hule!!!! Abale kodi Kennedy akuti kweni kweni Nkazi amene a kukwatiwa ndi uti I want to know popeza there is a chain of women womwe akugonana nawo kapena ndi Aida,kapena Pricilla kapena Nora wakuchimwankhunda kapena Linda,kapena Joyce kapena Emily,Kapena body guard wake, kapena Berthar wa amuna abilii Hule lija lakumowa lija kapena Mercy waku………..uja eeeeh the list is endless komaaaa Kennedy UHULE mukutichititsa manyanyazi mulape chikwapu cha Mulungu chayamba ku yenda .Mukuti Ukwati samangitsa Abusa koma Mulungu ? Ku sewera ndi Mulungu Etii Pano ndiye Mudziwadi Kuti Mulungu ndiwoopsa. Kennedy akanadziwa Mulungu zibwenzi akanamuzunza ESTHER Chifukwa ukwati wa Kennedy Nd Esther anamanga Nd Mulungu .Mulungu sasekelera Uhulmkapena Bodza ayi.Iwe number70 Umudziwa Mulungu tsopano wapalamula Lupanga la Mulungu pa mawu ako Chifukwa Whatever Hule Berther ,Aida,Joyce Emily,kaya Mukuti Linda ndichigololo Chifukwa Kennedy Ali ndi Nkazi wake Esther womwe Mulungu anadalitsa.Chitsimikizo Kuti mkazi wamwe anakalembetsa ukwati Wachigoloyo ndi Hule nichoti akulimbikilabe akanakhala kuti ndi mkazi wa straight Kukanidwa kwa ukwati ndi a st james CCAP akazindikira kuti amagonana ndi Cruku who can aford to Cheat Even God posing kuti anathetsa ukwati pamene zili za Bodza .Komanso mukanadziwa Kuti Abusa alibe ntchito Mumakapelekelanji kalata Yakatangale ku st James CCAP .Tsoka wodzetsa nkwiyo wa Mulungu!!!!! Museta Muona Kukulakwila Esther Mwana wa Mulungu .Mwina ena nu Simukumudziwa Esther ndi mzimayi wopemphela Kwambil wosati yemwe mukumunamizil Mankhalidwe achilendo mu kulemba ma koment woyipa wa ayi ,amene yo Si Esther Mcheka womwe timamudziwa ife ayi. Esther Mheka is a God fearing woman , wa ulemu wodzichepetsa, wachikondi ncchifukwa Chake she is a blessed and successful woman.Olo Mutamunenela Zoipa zotani CHILUNGAMO CHIDZIWIKA TSIKU LINA MAHULE NONSE MWGWANAYO.LEAVE ESTHER ALONE!!!!!!!!

  16. National Bus says:

    Iwe kenedy driver wanational bus Akaziwo achulukitsa Mwadzadzamo tsopano a traffic akugwirani pa St James

  17. Asoka says:

    Wagwanayo huleyo tso akuti akwatitsa opanda Abusa ha ha nde kukhalanso ukwati kapena kumangopanga uhule wamyumbano koma mkaziyo nde ndi airtel yakwathutu

  18. The craggy says:

    We are Going to go by the rules of the Bible

  19. De gaza says:

    Iwe number 70 sukumudziwa kennedy kuti ndi hule!!!! Abale kodi Kennedy akuti kweni kweni Nkazi amene a kukwatiwa ndi uti I want to know popeza there is a chain of women womwe akugonana nawo kapena ndi Aida,kapena Pricilla kapena Nora wakuchimwankhunda kapena Linda,kapena Joyce kapena Emily,Kapena body guard wake, kapena Berthar wa amuna abilii Hule lija lakumowa lija kapena Mercy waku………..uja eeeeh the list is endless komaaaa Kennedy UHULE mukutichititsa manyanyazi mulape chikwapu cha Mulungu chayamba ku yenda .Mukuti Ukwati samangitsa Abusa koma Mulungu ? Ku sewera ndi Mulungu Etii Pano ndiye Mudziwadi Kuti Mulungu ndiwoopsa. Kennedy akanadziwa Mulungu zibwenzi akanamuzunza ESTHER Chifukwa ukwati wa Kennedy Nd Esther anamanga Nd Mulungu .Mulungu sasekelera Uhulmkapena Bodza ayi.Iwe number70 Umudziwa Mulungu tsopano wapalamula Lupanga la Mulungu pa mawu ako Chifukwa Whatever Hule Berther ,Aida,Joyce Emily,kaya Mukuti Linda ndichigololo Chifukwa Kennedy Ali ndi Nkazi wake Esther womwe Mulungu anadalitsa.Chitsimikizo Kuti mkazi wamwe anakalembetsa ukwati Wachigoloyo ndi Hule nichoti akulimbikilabe akanakhala kuti ndi mkazi wa straight Kukanidwa kwa ukwati ndi a st james CCAP akazindikira kuti amagonana ndi Cruku who can aford to Cheat Even God posing kuti anathetsa ukwati pamene zili za Bodza .Komanso mukanadziwa Kuti Abusa alibe ntchito Mumakapelekelanji kalata Yakatangale ku st James CCAP .Tsoka wodzetsa nkwiyo wa Mulungu!!!!! Museta Muona Kukulakwila Esther Mwana wa Mulungu .Mwina ena nu Simukumudziwa Esther ndi mzimayi wopemphela Kwambil wosati yemwe mukumunamizil Mankhalidwe achilendo mu kulemba ma koment woyipa wa ayi ,amene yo Si Esther Mcheka womwe timamudziwa ife ayi. Esther Mheka is a God fearing woman , wa ulemu wodzichepetsa, wachikondi ncchifukwa Chake she is a blessed and successful woman.Olo Mutamunenela Zoipa zotani CHILUNGAMO CHIDZIWIKA TSIKU LINA MAHULE NONSE MWGWANAYO.LEAVE ESTHER ALONE!!!!!!!

  20. De gaza says:

    Iwe number 70 sukumudziwa kennedy kuti ndi hule!!!! Abale kodi Kennedy akuti kweni kweni Nkazi amene a kukwatiwa ndi uti I want to know popeza there is a chain of women womwe akugonana nawo kapena ndi Aida,kapena Pricilla kapena Nora wakuchimwankhunda kapena Linda,kapena Joyce kapena Emily,Kapena body guard wake, kapena Berthar wa amuna abilii Hule lija lakumowa lija kapena Mercy waku………..uja eeeeh the list is endless komaaaa Kennedy UHULE mukutichititsa manyanyazi mulape chikwapu cha Mulungu chayamba ku yenda .Mukuti Ukwati samangitsa Abusa koma Mulungu ? Ku sewera ndi Mulungu Etii Pano ndiye Mudziwadi Kuti Mulungu ndiwoopsa. Kennedy akanadziwa Mulungu zibwenzi akanamuzunza ESTHER Chifukwa ukwati wa Kennedy Nd Esther anamanga Nd Mulungu .Mulungu sasekelera Uhulmkapena Bodza ayi.Iwe number70 Umudziwa Mulungu tsopano wapalamula Lupanga la Mulungu pa mawu ako Chifukwa Whatever Hule Berther ,Aida,Joyce Emily,kaya Mukuti Linda ndichigololo Chifukwa Kennedy Ali ndi Nkazi wake Esther womwe Mulungu anadalitsa.Chitsimikizo Kuti mkazi wamwe anakalembetsa ukwati Wachigoloyo ndi Hule nichoti akulimbikilabe akanakhala kuti ndi mkazi wa straight Kukanidwa kwa ukwati ndi a st james CCAP akazindikira kuti amagonana ndi Cruku who can aford to Cheat Even God posing kuti anathetsa ukwati pamene zili za Bodza .Komanso mukanadziwa Kuti Abusa alibe ntchito Mumakapelekelanji kalata Yakatangale ku st James CCAP .Tsoka wodzetsa nkwiyo wa Mulungu!!!!! Museta Muona Kukulakwila Esther Mwana wa Mulungu .Mwina ena nu Simukumudziwa Esther ndi mzimayi wopemphela Kwambil wosati yemwe mukumunamizil Mankhalidwe achilendo mu kulemba ma koment woyipa wa ayi ,amene yo Si Esther Mcheka womwe timamudziwa ife ayi. Esther Mheka is a God fearing woman , wa ulemu wodzichepetsa, wachikondi ncchifukwa Chake she is a blessed and successful woman.Olo Mutamunenela Zoipa zotani CHILUNGAMO CHIDZIWIKA TSIKU LINA MAHULE NONSE MWGWANAYO.LEAVE ESTHER ALONE!!!!!!!!

  21. Manyazi ndi Malawi says:

    This misogynistic , tribalistic nation called Malawi. No wonder we are the most backward, most poverty stricken, most disease ridden, most nepotistic in the region. Mozambique had war FOR MANY YEARS BUT NOW economically Mozambique is doing so much better. Kama ife ntchito kutukwana, kunyozana, nkhani yoti Chilenje ndi nsena that is why she is getting divorced is just nauseating, then you have some attacking Lomwes, then you have some saying atumbuka this and that. Why cant we just be Malawians. Most people comment off topic and it just makes me realized why we are poor. Our energy is focused on the wrong thing. A MALAWI SHOULD WAKE UP . AND KNOW THAT MOST OF THIS SHIT IS IRRELEVANT TO HAVING CLEAN WATER, MEDICINE, GOOD ROADS AND HIGHQUALITY EDUCATION . THIS IS A SHAME. AND FOR NKHOMA PSEUDO CHURH SYNOD WHY AIR ONE OF YOUR MEMBERS BUSINESS . I understand marriage is a public matter but this is just geared to disgrace others. TYPICAL MALAWIAN BACKWARD MENTALITY .
    Umphawi basi.

    1. rosie says:

      Eti, nde ife zitikhuze about their private life!! Seriously!!!

  22. Mr redphase says:

    Mmmm maiwa ndiovuta,komaso ndi ankhaza.akazi olemerawa amaona ngati chuma ndi chikondi?mr nkhoma ingomutengani Bertha even achurch asakhalepo.banja amamanga ndi mulungu not abusa or church.out of 100 couples only 10.3% amapangisa ukwati wa pa church.long live kennedy.

  23. Simbarashe says:

    Abwana nkhoma ngati apinga akuvutavuta mungokwatira basi bwana ndikalelija muupeze, m’pawone pakhomo

  24. john Tembo says:

    vuto la Esitele ndi mwano,azimayi omwe sangakhale pa banja ndi awa;
    Esther Mcheka Chilenje
    Jessie Kabwila
    Seodi White and the list is endless chifukwa azimayiwa ndi amwano heavy!!!

    1. Mu Lhomwe wapa Phata says:

      Ena ndi awa

      Callister Mutharika

  25. MaiMai says:

    Nsena ndi Nsena you can’t marry them. Is she even beautiful? Don’t mix beauty and kuyera.

    why is she divorcing for third time now? Nde pali nkhanipo no matter how you comment yourself you ashhole lady.

    1. Harris Harawa says:

      MaiMai – be respectful to your fellow women. If you are envious to her beauty that is not an issue here; the issue is her husband wants to marry another woman. There is no connection whatsoever between her beauty and the divorce issue. Indeed, there is no connection between the issue of divorce and being NSena. Where is the research suggesting that only Sena women are being divorced. I married from the same Sena tribe and have a very respectful and intelligent woman! Ask yourself why men like Nkhoma left women from his tribe to marry this intelligent woman. Tribe is not an issue to marital problems!

    2. Theo says:

      The issue here is not usena, you also have your own problems, so don”t judge the whole tribe based on a single issue

    3. rosie says:

      But why is she divorcing for the third time????

  26. BWANA Get-Out says:

    Ingowatengani enawo musachedwe nkudalitsa ungazayambe kuthanso mavuto mukuwawona ndinu osat ife

  27. Maliana says:

    Please cut Honorable Chilenje some slack. She is not the person that sought divorce; it is Mr. Nkhoma who did this. We cannot continue to blame women just because a man has sought to leave his wife for another wife. I thought Mr. Nkhoma also has some children from his previous family. Why should successful women be the ones to blame all the time when things fall apart in matrimonial relations?

  28. Zangazanga Ncqube says:

    A church, how did you leak this to media??? Handle personal issues with confidentiality.

  29. fanizo says:

    this Hon woman did not stay with her step children because at the beggining kenedy refused to bring his children in the marriage so to say she had problem living with step children can not be true-the differences should be personal to both esther and kenedy that requires each one be humble and forgive each other

    1. Maliana says:

      Apa nde mwalankhula zomveka osati ndiwerenga ine mmakomenti enawa osonyozeza nsanje against a successful woman.

  30. Maa says:

    Mayiwa ali ndi ana atatu aliyense from different father..Nkhoma No 4.

  31. Kankhunda jnr says:

    kukongola ndi khalidwe zinthu ziwiri zosiyana, mr nkhoma ingomutengan winayo asamale pa nyumba

  32. Nzake wa ngwazi says:

    What is African customary law, umbulitu uwu, you don’t even know what a customary law means misleading people . Mwina mukanati traditional olo local custom. Misleading people much osteoporosis

  33. Thoko says:

    The church has double standards, isn’t this the same church that was so fast to wed Peter Mutharika and Getrude Maseko?????????

  34. Wananga says:

    Mayi, mpatseni mwayi mwamuna akwatire. Msamyike mu mayesero chifukwa it is not easy for a man to leave alone as compared to a women. Problem with women is that they like to be called mrs somebody even though they do not love or leave with him. I guess divorce brings shame to them.

  35. Sapitwa kakulanye says:

    You Boko Haram, is Mcheka Chilenje a Sena or Mang’anja? Are sure Senas are cruel? Don’t generalize things.

  36. Kaya says:

    Um that’s big scandal now now no marriage no love………..

  37. Kantchowa says:

    Hahaha! Zavutapo apo.

  38. Oficial says:

    Amwene Nkhoma,tengani adona atsopanowo muzikakhala kunyumba.ampingo adzifire ngati iwo ndi mulungu?NCHEKA WAFANAYO

  39. Marcus says:

    A church marriage doesnt end like a football match…..consult the Bible and read what God is saying about divorce

  40. Lucy says:

    At that age osadzipatsa ulemu bwanji ? Ndipo akwatila kangati ? Kennedy ndi mwamuna cha nkhanza kwambili ndipo ndi hule wakuzunzani Hon .Kuchititsa manyazi ndithu.

  41. Mu Lhomwe wapa Phata says:

    Anakakhala Pitara Muthanyura. Bwenzi mutachita so kukanganilana okadalisa. A Farisi inu perfect pagans. Stupid

  42. bullshit says:

    This guy is just unfortunate as he is not a head of state. Peter Munthalika used the same Blantyre Synod even without following the procedures. Poor people land Malawi is

  43. Israel Difense Force says:

    Koma uyu naye mkulu wa prison uyu nde anangotiwonongerapo ma hope athu ndithu. Naye mcheka, how desperate was she!!!!!?

  44. SALOME says:

    2014 year of CCAP nkhalamba weddings

  45. Rasta says:

    What is the name of new bridesmaid? I wanna know caz the story is incomplete. It is biased towards the causes and has not stated the impact on the new lady. De other thing is that if the police chief is flouting the laws, promoting corruption in the judicial system it is hard to trust law enforcement any more. Police chief can not fool the ex-wife and can not fool all the churches. Zomba refused him and Rev. Mmangisa has also denied giving him the transfer letter. So complicated, so nasty to try to fool God. The chief has a case of forgery to answer and a maximum sentence should be granted by the high courts of Malawi. He should explain how he obtain the divorce certificate and transfer letter including those computer wizards who assisted him to forge. Eshhhh. Big man, Big mutha kulowatu inu minimum can be 3 months with hard labour or community service work for 180 hours poti ndinu Big.

  46. za ukwati private socisl issues public shud not debate. however churches leaders can mislead couplrs so to the preasts pastord prophrtd etc… am sure my deputy dpeaker or inged pridon chief csn quietly settle issue eithout sensetuslixing it !.

  47. Bondo says:

    No one will hide from God. Those who talk too much will be rolled by their mouth. Do one thing at a time leave the first one first then marry the other one,,,, never be incomplete be a man.

  48. Coarseberg says:

    It is not about the tribe here but the marriage and divorce procedures. The church can not officiate some thing which is not normal. This is also giving us a real picture that mr K Nkhoma is gud at womanising and abusing.

  49. Bonface Phiri says:

    Is it what happened ? Marriage is between two people. If things fail to work between them, no matter how others may talk it wont work. I also didn’t know that things stopped working between Kennedy and Esther. Especially that the man ever visited the lady in America not too long ago. Anyway, this is a sign that one of them if not all is fed up. Of course, the man has to exhaust all the procedures of divorce. However, he will be looked at as if ndi wokwatirakwatira

  50. Mwiza says:

    Angokwatira mwakachetechete

  51. Innocent says:

    Mmm wat lucius kungoyimba nyimbo ija zothela zake izi mxiii, im selling ma 3310

  52. Abk says:

    the choice of partners in love was wrong. whatever it takes, marriage between a fisherman a conductress does not last long;a bad call.

  53. Akungolonje says:

    Ukwati wa Kennedy Nkhoma nd Ester Ncheka Chilenje umandikumbutsa komanso kukhulupilira nyimbo zomwe Lucius Banda amaimba. Ukwati wa ma aluvela mmbale, magalimoto adali ngati nkhungo kaya njuchi, chidali chikwati cha Boma kusakadza tax payers money, koma chaka osatha ali kwawo-nkwawo! Olemekezeka bwana Lucius Banda pitilizani ndithu kuimba mwina anthuwa nkusinthikako.
    Nsena uyu wachita zazikulu mmaofesi a ma Lecturer pa Bunda! palibe chinsinsi padziko lapansi.
    Nanunso a Kennedy mudanamiza anthu ku Makhanga kuti mubweletsa akaidi kudzatsakula estate, mpaka mudafika pofuna kulanda ofesi wa Fisheries pa Bangula, ndi nymba za Fisheries pa Makhanga kuti musandutse Prison, konseko kudali kufuna kufoilitsa Nsena Ester. Anthu inu ndinu zitsilu zotheratu, lero mukuti MDC shame on you two-mubweze ndalama zaboma mudasakadza zija (Ester ndi Kennedy) nanga simzanu yemwe mudayenera kuthandizana naye kubwezako Bingu lero ali mmanda. Ndiye ngati simubweza kaya? moto umatsala tchire. Bingu ndiye adapita!

  54. Khakhakha says:

    Chizungu choti “her wife:” chayamba liti. Ndi ma lesbo kapena? Mumalemba nkhani mwa phuma bwanji? Mumafuna mutchuke chani? Usawi chichi?

  55. kamowa says:

    A CCAP ndinu zitsiru koma akanakhala Peter…

  56. khriss chitsime says:

    masiku omaliza amenewo

  57. MaiMai says:

    Chilenje is divorcing for 3rd time now..Definitely she is a problem not Nkhoma. So 3 men she has shown her under wear and her hole eiish..hule hule. Mzimayu alibe ulemu ngwamwano zedi.. Msena is not for marriage But Hit and Run. Chilenje? ?? Eeeeh too arrogant lady…pride kills her, alibe ulemu mayiwa but she tries to appear nice in public koma ayi ndiovuta mayiwa kwambiritu….

    azibale ake onse sagwirizana nawo nde akagwirizane ndi mwamuna????

  58. ELIAH says:

    Waona ngati popangira ndalama

  59. Ma says:

    Guys you don’t know this Chilenje lady. She isca devil, she has no respect for anyone, she is soo arrogant, she is sena with no Manners as usual…!

    Just ask yourself why has she divorced 3 men now including Nkhoma????? A real ashhole trust me.

    Whoever wants to Marry this woman again be X warned you will be a slave in your own house and I xan guarantee you 1 year is maximum you can stay with her.

  60. matumbi says:

    Akazi ena amabowa akamangitsa banja. Koma ukapeza wina amakukanirira ngati amalifuna banjalo. Muzaziwona osamangoti ee mpaka kufa sizoona. I am speaking from experience. M’mabanja mwinamu muli mavuto oopsa azibambo angokhalira kupirira

  61. Ranken Ngomano says:

    Man Ken, ampingo ngati akukana asiyeni jus take 1 or 2 akaidi and let em officiate ur ukwati.

  62. matumbi says:

    Simunaziwone muzaziwona. Akazi ena amabowa m’mbanja koma ukapeza wina amakukanirira ngati kuti amalikonda banjalo. This is from experience

  63. original KK says:

    People People . Can’t you just see and sympathise and imagine what Mr nkhoma went through with this vuvuzela woman . Look how she she screams at male mps in parliament and put Mr nkhoma in your shoes in that bedroom . Ah ah let me Mr nkhoma find love after all mcheka is head over hills with Henry mussa Mp at his house at area 11 . Bravo brother nkhoma go ahead marrying your love bird .

  64. CHEWA FEDERAL FRONT_(CFF) says:

    St Mark 10:11-12 explicitly bars men and women from divorcing their spouses. The First Epistle to the Corinthians sets death as the only condition to separate a man from his wife.
    I would strongly recommend that Mr Nkhoma goes back to Mcheka-Chilenje for reconciliation.
    Incidentally, “irresponsible” married life is not only damaging to one’s health, but is actually FATAL to one’s spiritual progress. Catholic saints, Oriental sages & seers have all been celibate.

  65. Lord ship Tung'ande says:

    Bambo oyaluka awa kodi kukwatira
    mukwatira kangati msinkhu umenewo.
    ana anuwo akapanga zomwezo mziti
    ndiochitisa manyazi.

  66. Mussa Bramu says:

    MZIMAYI OLEMEKEZEKA NGATI AMENEYU ZOONA KUMAPANGA NKHANZA?

  67. Isaac Lyton AKA Drogba is back. says:

    I do not see any sign of Godliness.Only hi profile prostitution.Masiku otsiliza omewowo!Kaya muziona!Zokhumba za mtumwi zija sizimenezi?

  68. Ibu_abdul says:

    And nyasatimes tel us if she had show any signs to or had ever attempted to reconciliate wth Nkhoma. She shld not stand here wth a high head claiming not aware of the MDC as if she cares.coz from zimene tamvazi she doesnt care at all, hw can she fail a marriage all in the name of hatred toward stepchildren.

  69. PASTOR FK SIYANKHUNI says:

    From my own observation, marriages of public figures, well to do businessmen/ladies, educated fellows do not last long if not there is no peace. Let me tell u one the secret; U lack one THING and this is JESUS. No matter who or what you are but without JESUS u are nothing. I am the living testimony. HE is knocking at ur heart’s door right now. Whether u have monies, positions, tittles that alone is not enough. Are u ready to receive Him as ur savoiur? IF YES CLICK LIKE,U ARE BLESSED.

  70. Kodi bambo Nkhoma katundu wa Chilenje akumuona? Tikukhwasula tiayamata mu LLs. Fupa lokakamiza limaswa muphika. banja linatha ili. Enanu mungoti fwe fwe apa mabanja anu ngakhale muli limodzi ngotha kale. Musiyeni bambo Nkhoma adyepo katundu mphamvu zake zisanatheletu, asa. Banja without katundu eating is NIX.

  71. nankungwi says:

    amuna kukomedwa.you want to tell us that even the church failed to bring them together after their quarells.hands up rev mmangisa dont give that man a transfer letter he is an abuser of women ankangofuna kumudyera esther ndalama

  72. VYOTO says:

    KENNEDY NKHOMA AND HIS LAWYER MIGHT HAVE USED SHORT CUTS TO OBTAIN THE DIVORCE CERTIFICATE FROM THE COURT AND WE ALL KNOW THE THINGS THAT MIGHT BE BEHIND THE SHORT CUT OTHERWISE ONE DOES NOT HAVE TO BE A LAWYER TO APPRECIATE THE REQUIREMENT FOR THE TWO PARTIES TO BE HEARD BEFORE DIVORCE IS GRANTED BY A COMPETENT COURT. ACB MIGHT BE AN INTERESTED PARTY IN THIS ISSUE. IT ALSO SURPRISES ME THAT A WHOLE PRISON CHIEF AND 1ST DEPUTY SPEAKER OF PARLIAMENT COULD NOT MANAGE A SMALL PROBLEM INVOLVING KIDS.THE MARRIAGE WAS BETWEEN KENNEDY NKHOMA AND MCHEKA CHILENJE, KIDS BELONG TO THE BLOCK OF SECOND PARTIES!

  73. FRANK says:

    Woooooooooii Ken ndi hule lothelatu,wachita bwino ester ndipo ungowauza out akagwere

  74. Chemkumbi says:

    Iwe Boko Haram, mapazi ako. Unamva kuti zoti Asena ndi anthu ankhanza? Sibwino kulankhula choncho, kufuna kuononga mtundu wa anzanu.

  75. dairemulala says:

    Mutibwezere tinfupa zija.

  76. Nobel says:

    Zam’banja izi!!!! Aisove!

  77. Lol says:

    Being Single is not a Sin at all!

  78. Kulinda Mtere says:

    Whether there is a divorce certification or not, is there love between the two ex-bedmates? Clearly, there isn’t. So why does the woman seem to still cling to the man whom she had publicly demonised as a violent bull and an accomplished woman abuser.?

    1. Maliana says:

      I do not think Hon Chilenje is clinging to Mr. Nkhoma. Mr. Mkhoma is the one who sought divorce and remarriage. Hon Chilenje only expressed her ignorance about the divorce certificate and Mr. Mkhoma’s impending marriage. A Malawi let us respect people especially now that they are going through bad emotional times like divorce.

  79. Boko Haram says:

    Ngati akupanga nkhanza ana ake musiyeni akwatile mkazi wina musankhomelele Ken,ndipo anachita bwino kumusiya asena nkhanzaaaah!!!!

    1. ISS says:

      Boko haram yababako, ndiwe nyansala!

    2. Maliana says:

      Asena kukongola. Mitundu yambiri imakonda akazi Achisena chifukwa they are both sharp, intelligent and respectful. But like every tribe, there are some women who have some problems. Nonetheless, Mai Chilenje is one of the most respectful women you will know. She has risen not because of pomposity, but because of her ardent respect and love for the people she serves. The fact that there some marriage issues in her family, that should not serve to abuse her integrity as a person.

  80. Bliz says:

    Blantyre Synod why applying rules to Nkhoma not Peter Munthalika?

  81. wangalusa says:

    Blessed are men & women who have no passion for marriage.

  82. Shame to Mr Nkhoma why wedding leaving a beautiful wife like Mcheka Chilenje

    1. Truck says:

      Some beautiful Women are problems in Marriage may be he got a good reason why he left this Wife don’t judge him.

    2. Mneneli Wonyenga says:

      Chankhazacho, changokongola nkhope mmkati ndi moowola.

    3. HMT says:

      beautiful opanda khalidwe yo? do u know what this so called beautiful woman of urs made him go thru? beauty isn’t everything

  83. My brother and sisters please lead the book of Matthew 19v1-12(marriage and divorce)what did GOd joined together,let not man separate.
    A WARNING
    REVELATION 22vs 18-19.

    NOTES:
    Palibe chifukwa choti munthu azitenga kalata yachilekanilo,kodi mukuyendela malemba oyela kapena amumutu mwani inu munamupasa kalata yachilekanilo munthuyu?

    Ampingo anawonesa chilungamo komanso kusatila mawu oyela mumene ayenela kutelo,angakhale akuti akadali member wa mpingo munthuyu angotaya nthawi yake ndiwolakwa.poti mawu oyela akuti;zisiyeni tiligu ndi nasongole zizikulila limonzi,ayi azipemphela tikudikila oweluza amene ali mulengi.poti mulungu sasakha akuti;Odala ndi olema izani kwa ine ndipo ndizakupulumutsani
    .

    1. rosie says:

      We want to read not lead apa!

  84. munyasa says:

    wedding of the year……bad blood with step children …..then what they r on seperation becoz there was no divorce hearing that took place……the church is right

  85. apao says:

    great news. Pigamy will stop if matters are looked at like the way ccap did. Until death. Is one died here? Learn from here. Eish

    1. Mneneli Wonyenga says:

      Azimayi ena ndi ma Zodiak, anatero m’busa wina. Mamuna kutandarrra kumowa kuwopa ZBS. Kikikiki!!!!!!!!

  86. Alfred Munduwabo says:

    The most corrupt church on earth. Bwana Nkhoma just produce US dollars as what Peter did , everything will be ok.

  87. Lover boy says:

    Kumilira mamuna bwanji, katundunso sukumupatsa kuti atafune. Mxiii

  88. Mbabanja amasiku ano anangolowa business bas,mumalonjeza nokha kut mpaka imfa izakulekanisen nde mumangiranji ukwat wina pomwe winayo sanatisiye,choosing a partner zimafunika kukhala serious kut uyuyu ndi mpaka imfa osat lero kumanga ukwat mawa wathapo

  89. TICOON says:

    WHAT GOD HAS JOINED LET NO MAN SEPERATE. MARRIAGE HAS BECOME FASHION FOR SHOWBIZ INSTEAD OF CONSULTING GOD ABOUT DECISIONS WE JUST DO AS WE WISH..MAY GOD GUIDE US

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