CCAP sponsors wedding for orphans in Lilongwe

In a very rare move by churches in Malawi, Msonkhamanja CCAP in the city of Lilongwe last Saturday gave a special Christmas and new year present to a young couple who are orphans by sponsoring their wedding which otherwise would not have taken place because the couple and those looking after them are impoverished.

Yes it has happened.

Yes it has happened.

Posing for a photo with the Reverend after officiation

Posing for a photo with the Reverend after officiation

The moment of wedding rings

The moment of wedding rings

Many people came to witness the special wedding the first of its kind in Msonkhamanja

Many people came to witness the special wedding the first of its kind in Msonkhamanja

The bride, Titani Naphiri and the bridegroom, Lester Chibwe both live in Phwetekere location, one of the biggest squatters in the capital city of Lilongwe, and can both be described as orphans although Chibwe’s parents are still alive but were divorced many years ago such that the mother brought him up as a single parent.

Steven Phiri, church elder from Phwetekere ward narrated the story of the couple: “Though Chibwe’s mother is alive she could not afford the wedding expenses as she has no reliable source of income even to sustain herself.

“Chibwe’s father left them when Lester was a baby and never had anything to do with them. Lester Chibwe and her mother survive on a small barber shop run by the son at Phwetekere.”

On the day of the wedding, it was said Lester Chibwe’s father was at home a few meters from the church where the wedding was taking place but couldn’t come to walk his son down the aisle to the altar because there has been no connection between the two.

“On the other hand Naphiri lost both parents and lives with her sister who is also finding it hard to feed herself.

“They had no hope of having a decent wedding reception, what they wanted was only to go to church on this day and be blessed by the church minister by laying his hands on them, thereafter they return to their squatter home and continue with their life as if nothing had happened,” revealed Elder Phiri.

It was the church session clerk who, through interaction with the couple when they came to register their marriage, discovered that they just wanted benediction from the church minister.

The clerk was touched when he heard their story and brought the issue to the attention of the church elders in the vestry.

“I told vestry the story of Titani and Lester and Vestry after discussing the matter, set up a wedding committee which has started working on wedding arrangements for the couple and this is an appeal to you all congregation to come and contribute whatever can help fulfill the plans,” the clerk told the church.

Resident Minister of Msonkhamanja CCAP, Dr Chatha Msangaambe, who is also Moderator of Nkhoma Synod of the CCAP, and has been minister for close to twenty years, acknowledged that in all his entire service as minister, he has never witnessed a church sponsor the whole wedding ceremony one hundred percent as Msonkhamanja has done.

A few months ago, Rev. Dr Msangaambe embarked on a campaign to entice all the Christians who had their marriages not blessed to come and get blessed.

He emphasized that many people fail to come to church to bless their weddings because they are afraid that they don’t have money for wedding receptions. They just elope and come back to church later for disciplining.

“I tell you that marriage blessing is not the expensive receptions you hold, the expensive cars you ride in or the plenty food and drink you enjoy. Marriage blessing is the benediction the couple receives when they are committed by the minister unto God, and that’s most important,” said Msangaambe.

At that point, he invited all those wanting their marriages blessed: Come dressed in any way, with or without wedding dress, with or without shoes, walking or driving from your homes, get your marriages blessed and go back home happily because all these other things are not mandatory but if you don’t get your marriage blessed, you live in perpetual sin (adultery).

Most people believe this teaching inspired many Christians both already married and new couples to come forward and receive blessing for their marriages even without the normal any pomp.

At their reception, held in church premises, people turned up in large numbers and braved the rains to witness this special occasion and presented the couple with many gifts including blankets, kitchen utensils. There was overwhelming wedding offerings (perekani-perekani).

The church also booked an expensive suite at the newly opened high class Simama hotel in town for the couple to spend their first matrimonial night, Simama hotel management upon hearing the amazing story of the couple gave a 50% discount on the room charge.

Additionally, the couple after a night at the hotel will not go to Phwetekere squatter because they have been offered a place to stay for some months in Falls as they settle down and decide whether to go back to Phwetekere squatter or find somewhere else to stay.

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CHIKOKO
Guest

mulungu akudalitseni lester ndi banja lanu latsopano.

godobaman
Guest

koma atchalichitchi inu musatichimwisepo apa abakha amenewo ndi maopharn khalani ndi nzeru ma orphan anangamafunine kutchayana hahahahahaha ambuye azalanga wina

tonde
Guest

Kkkkk, sponsoring a union that promotes population growth? At what age does a person stop being called orphans? If these so called orphan reached a stage if marriage it means they are mentally, financially and crowning it all “they are socially independent”.
I have never heard that the couple being wedded are orphans.
What are you promoting as a church? You should be ashamed of yourself as a church if you felt this was the best present or gift of the year to marry these orphans.

moniredada
Guest
Golingo do u go to church? Much as there is freedom of expression and u r entitled to ur opinion in this free society, know that the freedom of expression is not an absolute right, sometimes where ur freedom of expression ends is exactly where u infringe on someones rights! The way u have bared it all and exposed the names of private parts and the functions they do is not acceptable to the people who thought they were doing the right thing in assisting raise funds for this contentious wedding! I am not blaming u but just trying to… Read more »
Favour
Guest

At my church,this is not news. This family needs to be empowered,otherwise things will not be easy for them.

padoko
Guest

Orphans? Hahahaha!! They got married below the age of 18 to call them orphans?? In that case, almost all of us are orphans then.

Nankungwi
Guest

If the church has pais that mney for her to do a course whuc can assure her of an income, they would have improved their lives a lot morfe permamnently I think. I am worried about children being married when they cant even afford to feed themselves!

Peter Mathanyula Wakuba
Guest

Instead of thinking about their education or business they’re thinking about fucking? Uchitsiru uwu! Who will feed your kids? Are you planning for another Madonna adoption?

Reasonable Man
Guest

Uchitsiru wa pa Malawi. Instead of working hard to build wealth, you’re entering into a useless union. What for? MNCHINDO OMWEWO? FOTSEKI

Dick
Guest

THIS IS MISALLOCATION OF RESOURCES. FOOLISHNESS AND STUPIDITY AT ITS BEST. THESE ARE YOUTHS WHO ARE SUPPOSED TO BE IN SCHOOL. BULL SHIT

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