Sendeza leaves behind breatbreaking suicide notes: Thyolo woman kills herself over family disputes
A well-known Lilongwe man Johnstone Sendeza overwhelmed by unbearable challenges in his business life commited suicide and left a heartbreaking note to his wife
Sendeza was found hanging in a toilet by his sister, politician Jean Sendeza.
In his suicide notes found after his death, sean by Nyasa Times, Sendeza wrte his fiancé whom he was about to wed: “ I love you but I had to do this. L.ove you, John.
Sendeza was to marry next month on the 22nd and all preparations were at advanced stage with venue and other things already paid for.
There was also a separate suicide note which he listed names of those owing him money.
And a special message was written fo r a ‘Zizwane’, saying : “ You will never find peace in your life.”
Family has refused to comment.
Elsewhere, a 31 year old woman from Thyolo has died after allegedly committing suicide over family disputes.
Thyolo Police officer in Charge, Deputy Commissioner, Tereza Nankhuni confirmed the development, saying the deceased has been quarreling with her husband over undisclosed family disputes for some time.
“The incident took place on September 15 at around 6 O’clock in the evening, when Derrick Mpwilikiti (32), a husband to the deceased returned home. After arriving home, he did not get a response from his wife Violet despite several attempts as he tried to call her,” she said.
She said Derrick then suspected that something might have gone wrong and because of that he alerted the Village Chairman, who came to break the house with him.
“Upon forcibly breaking the house door, they saw Violet hanging in the bedroom. It is believed that she locked up the room and hanged herself to the roof of the bedroom with a wire,” she added.
The body of the deceased was taken to Thyolo District Hospital where post mortem results showed that she died due to suffocation.
Violet Mpwilikiti came from Mtulo village, Traditional Authority Ngolingoliwa in the district.
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everyone has a breaking point, so don’t be loud hear- he is gone, you are still here remember. RIP
suicide is a matter of choice, a tough choice, sometimes quite selfish choice, other time quite a senseless and insensitive choice. After all God allows it to happen. Why does He do that- allow it to happen? Everything happens for a reason. whenever suicide happens we must let the grieved to mourn privately and we must give the departed the decent burial as they deserve. they were defeated. they were hopeless or too angry. let them rest peacefully. will they go to hell? that is for their God to judge. Be prepared. Tomorrow it may be you or your loved… Read more »
I can smell a looming suicide in you sir. An inevitable choice for many though…
There is no peace to a sinner even if she or he dies. I am not judging but the truth is that committing suicide is an indication that a person involved in this act lived here on earth without knowing God who gives hope to the hopeless. Living here on earth independent of God is sin and there is no peace to such people. If some thinks that if he and she commits suicide,she /he has relieved him/herself from challenges, then he or she is cheating himself or herself. The Bible says “You shall not kill”. If someone thinks that… Read more »
O………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………O If you have ever failed in life but managed to pick yourself up and move on; congratulate yourself . . . . . . others would rather die than live with the shame that comes with failure. If you are poor, but still going on; pat yourself on the back . . . . . . It takes a lot of courage to be poor and carry on. Others just cant. If you once were rich but [by whatever reason] became poor, and yet still going on; throw a party for yourself . . . . . . it… Read more »
Wakapuma basi inunso lanu lidzakwana osachuluka nzeru apa
OkOkOk! Ndiwe wabodza,akapume kuti?anakuuza ndani kuti kuli kupuma kwa odzipha?Nawenso ofunika uthandizidwe zisanakuchitikile izi. Very sad indeed for these two fellas,Johnstone and Violet.Chonde abale ili likhale phunziro kwa tonse kuti we should not live for ourselves but rather make God the centre of our lives since problems are inevitable to us all at some point in life” Kindly read the book of Job” as it reads”Munthu obadwa ndi mkazi ndi wa masiku owerengeka nakhuta mavuto” .Cases of Johnstone,Violet and those not known is a clear sign and evidence that despite the goodnews being spread daily people still live on their… Read more »
thats very true