Sex starved Malawi man hangs self

A 34-year-old man in Malawi’s capital Lilongwe ( Chiuzira Area) has hanged himself to death outside his house, after his girl friend reportedly denied him sex.

Man hanged himself on a tree branch in frustration after a row over sex with his lover

Man hanged himself on a tree branch in frustration after a row over sex with his lover

Eye witnesses said the man, who identity was not independently verified, complained that his lover was ill-treating him and being inconsiderate by refusing to have sex with him.

The man said he complained that a girl with whom he reportedly had a long standing relationship was starving him on sex.

“He was emotionally depressed,” said Martin Malindi, the self-confessed eye witness.

Unconfirmed reports claim that the man’s penis was allegedly erect after he committed suicide

It is however, very possible and common for men who commit suicide to have erect penises even after being confirmed dead.

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94 thoughts on “Sex starved Malawi man hangs self”

  1. irvine says:

    Thanks to those who posted bad coments about our beloved Tomas who was killed and hanged in a tree at chiuzila last sunday but the people who did that are now caught & being kept at police station [kawale]

  2. MPHULITSI says:

    this is not justifiable,how can somebody lose life because of a prostitute??this is mysterious

  3. Chakhaza says:

    Indeed the man is murdered.

  4. IDA cHIGALU says:

    mmmmm Sex Sex who created you

  5. musisipala says:

    Hanging himself because of sex? Rubish , the man is the worst full on earth. He didnt know how to have sex

  6. mfumu says:

    I doubt if this is suicide. look at the marks on the arm pits of the white t-shirt. normally suicide his tongue would have been hanging out of the mouth and the eyes wide open. he must have been killed elsewhere and hanged. a police do your job well

  7. Chimwamowa says:

    Shame has to go to the girl why did she accepted to be in love affair with the malemu?,should we say that she didn’t know that sex goes hand in hand with love?, If we can say that the woman contributed into the death through an act or omission are we wrong?,

  8. This is two bad, maybe he had some issues over his girlfriend.
    My advice is to we all Malawians that don’t commit suicide if you have problems such as these. The only way to overcome these problems is to call upon God help you and I am sure He will set you free.

  9. abdul says:

    thats not a reason this guy they killed him

  10. Zowopsay says:

    That is how low an ignorant person would take it. I never make threats. It appears that low lives want to revel in disgust. I said make your comments but dont use hate speech. If you want hate speech how I can show you a threat . You can fester in your own filthy head. Plus this site is being reported to be shut down and all theat comment on it. with theri tumbuka heads will be noted. So enjoy how many minutes did you load to go online iT SEEMS YO DONT HAVE ENOUGH AIR TME TO COMMENT. i do. plus I know what domanin and ip address you are sending from .

  11. KANDAKULI says:

    pepani anamfedwa mwaluza munthu ofunikira m`banjamwanu komabe si matheo azonse mmoyowa umunthu .Chachikulu timpereke m,baleyu mwa AMBUYE.KUNANENEDWA kuti tizafa ngakhale njira njosiyanasiyana.

  12. mwanawamkulu says:

    This guy was killed!

  13. Bangster salamba says:

    Malawi watani ?pepani tione apolice ntchito yawo mulungu tonthozani anamalira

  14. Bangster salamba says:

    Malawi watani ?pepani

  15. saidi says:

    it is very sad to know that same people,hv the abality to do such things to kill himself,or may be they is a second hand in this issue.

  16. NyasaTimes, let’s be serious just this once, There is no way you pipo can miss identity ya mnyamatayu coz he is very popular, his name is Thomas, anali DJ kubala kwa Pitala nd he is, I mean was, a very good dancer, wavinapo muma music videos a almost oyimba onse otchuka mu Lilongwe, Evance Meleka, Lawrence Mbenjere, Alex Kamonga, Stella Mwanza, Kam’gunda Boys just to mention a few & zakazo mwamchulutsila, 34 is more than too much, anali wachichepele. Za imfa yake well, there is something fishy and a NyasaTimes musatipatse picture yakuti mukudziwapo kanthu coz there is a big hand @ play ‘kwa pitala komweko’. Wina aliyense yemwe anaonapo munthu odzimangilila akuuzani kuti mnyamatayu pamtengopa anankolowekedwapo atafakale and sanafe imfa yowawa, there is no sign of a violent death meaning kuti anaphedwa ndi anthu omwe iye ankawadziwa I mean kuwakhulupilira, his boss or some close frend or close workmate, I have deliberately ommitted ma parents coz they were not in good books. Being a private investigator I am ndikamva za mayendedwe a mnyamatayu tsiku lomwe anaphedwa I already have pipo I can successfully charge with 1st degree murder, but the killer has got money, and influence, and connections no wonder a reputable newsorg of NyasaTimes calibre ikumapanga mock imfa yamunthu basing on hearsay pomwe akanatha kukapanga verify ndi a polisi kapena a dindo a mmudzi, koma akanatani chi obama chili kukamwa.

  17. Munthuwamba says:

    My friend just how bad was the situation that you could reach the extent of taking your own life?? Are you sure you were ready to forget all the good things life has to offer?? Anyway ordinary folks like us need not comment much until an autopsy is done since there are allegations of foul play. In the mean time greet the likes of General Idi Amin dada, Marilyn Munroe, Tchaka Zulu and Nachipanti for us.

  18. Michael says:

    Priapism Demon thats what happened.Pure

  19. MBC Voice says:

    There are alot of bad thingz happening at MBC. Mozzy Nankhumwa – Min of Information has also influenced promotion of his inlaw REGINA CHIMENYA from grade 9 to grade 5 even though she only hold no paper on any proffession. Regina is an elder sister to Nankhumwas wife. The funny thing i that people that deserves better positions are always a threat to the uneducated managerz/controllerz/directorz thereby being oppreccd daily. Ontop of that azikazi aeni nde akunyengedwa pa MBC in favour of ma promotionz and better working conditionz. Azimuna inu omwe muli ndi achakazanu pa MBC dziwani kuti muli pamavuto koopya, ndangoduta without kuthyola nkhwani…

  20. This is homicide. He must have been killed and hung by some attackers. Forensic experts can prove this claim. Unfortunately, we do not have that modern and advanced science in this poorest country on earth. RIP.

  21. xxxx says:

    UCHITANDAMI UKUNDIUZA INE KUTI NDISAMALE POCHITA NDEMANGA KAPENA A NYASATIMES ASAMALE ASADAPONYE NKHANI PATSAMBA LINO.

  22. Uchindami says:

    Kukutuluka nkhani ina yoti malemuyu adachita chophedwa akuti atapezeka ndi mkazi wamwini mnyumba. Zitatero akuti adachita kukamumangilirapo apa! Tiyeni tisamale pochita ndemanga.

  23. Agalu Pa Mpando[APM] says:

    Chitsiru. Ma hule ali mbweee!

  24. Wakuchindikika says:

    MXIEW Opusa ameneyu eti? Mzimu wake usawuse muntendere

  25. Steve Austin Stone Cold says:

    R.I.P

  26. Zowopsya says:

    Nyasatimes Editors, and writers and Commenters. Freedom of speech means also responsibility. To respect others and their right to exist as they are THAT MEANS THESE TRIBALISTIC COMMENTS SHOULD NOT APPEAR ON THIS SITE. I have read some of the posts that you allow to be made on your site. Very inflammatory very irresponsible, and you allow tribalism, misogyny, racism ,and all other isms which are unacceptable in a civilized world to fester on your site in the name of free speech but then this is NYASAFESTER WHAT WE EXPECT IS NOT THE HIGHEST QUALITY OF INTERENT JOURNALSIM . It is pathetic that this is what journalism and so called individual rights have come to. To all who are making very tribalistic comments. I hope you feel better about your selves. Any responsible public forum has some level of censorship and respect but nyasa times is definitely a pit latrine. I heard about this site but I never thought it is this VILE. For a so called Christian nation it makes one think what are the heathens like.

  27. Iwe zoona ungadziphe chifukwa cha chigololo?very stupit.Akazi ali mbwe! Kusowa mabanja sumawaona?indeed hello waiting 4u

  28. peter kaluba says:

    RIP

  29. bubu says:

    chityuzi musachichotse anthu azitengerepo phunziro, ndiuchitsiru wake iyeyo munthu ungadzimange chifukwa cha vote, chamba wayenera ukha mlomwe ameneyu kapena msena paja azake avuta zedi kumakamp ufuna macondom akuti zofunda zakudya zakwana akushota ndi macondom, zitsiru zimenezi!

  30. Suicide Bonza says:

    Kudzipha chifukwa cha za ziii, hell is waiting sorry bro.

  31. sinpayment says:

    Nononon!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The man spent too much on the girl so its evitable Hahahahaha!!!!

  32. Kokotowa says:

    Mmene akuwonekeramu ndi mtumbuka ameneyu!

    Atumbuka bwanji?

  33. I would rather kill myself than commitng suicide…. Vietinamese proverb

  34. MADALA says:

    OSANGOPUKUSA NKUPEZA TULO BWANJI NAYONSO ANASOWA NETWORK EEEETII ???

    SAPUMA MNTENDERE AMENEYO !!!

  35. Funzo says:

    The usual procedure is to cut the person down and try to restore life NOT stand around and take photographs. This is grossly insensitive. Shame on Nyasa Times!

  36. m'Malawi says:

    Koma zithunzi za imfa pa Malawi pano timazikonda kobasi. It’s not normal. Pali ka chiwanda kenakake. Have some respect and conaideration for the relatives please and sensitivity for people of faint hearts. Mumabisa nkhope za ana to protect their identity, zinazinso mutha kuphunzira kumabisa.

  37. Eddings says:

    I don’t know how bfl was agirl?
    How strong was a34 yrs old man?
    Foolish youngman why killing himself? I think my good Lord will have more qns against him oh my brother why ? Ido understand the deep love u hard upon her (nanga mpakana kudzipha phiri mwaonjeza) nanga bumbulo mukanapisamo dzikanakhalabwa? Inunso akazi inu mudzikanabwinotu mbolo mumaifuna koma kudyada .(Thats abig lesson guys keep fit love ur life ,love Malawi and think 10 times musanadziphe

  38. paramount mkhumba says:

    koma nyere zimenezi zovutatu. no self control? anamwa chani? zikavuta timabunyula ngati ya mahule tiribe. dot com generation. masachet amenewa

  39. gumbuteni says:

    koma nyere! RIP Brother

  40. .... says:

    Anaopa chida mwana wamkazi amvekere “ufuna kumupha nacho ndani chimenecho?”

  41. Reasonable Man says:

    he was DPP. His t shirt says KWA PITALA KOMWEKO.

  42. kwenda says:

    Anayamba ndi Yudas sizachilendo izi.

  43. Reasonable Man says:

    that’s what happens mukamakakamira kukhala ndi chibwenzi chimodzi chokha. Ukanakhala jankeni mfana ukanapita kwa MG2. Tationetseni shaft yototayotu

  44. mthakati says:

    This is very disrepectful of you Nysasatimes to dispay such a graphic picture. Did you consider the feelings of the family? This man most likely had mental illness and you just managed to make light of that. I am through with your shock-jock journalism. I hope other readers wioll do the same and look elsewhere, unless you appologize for your lack of respect for the dead and the grieving!

  45. Chitseko says:

    Komabe Ambuye sakakulekelerani achimwene.Akakufusani kuti,”wakuitana n’ndani?”simukanama kuti,”ndinakumvani Ambuye.”poti akudziwa zonse kuti mwachoka ndi mkwiyo.kupemphera simudziwa?kufunsa maganizo kwa anzanu simudziwa?

  46. Chimbirazowa says:

    I think it was not only sex that made the guy to hang, why? There is something big, not sex.

  47. Waakulu says:

    The idiot of all time

  48. Tengupenya says:

    Suicide is seldom accidental or done in the heat of the moment. Performers premeditated the self-murder. There can also be compounding factors, like use of drugs just before commission of the act. However, denying a faithful young men sex can confuses the young minds more any drug can. Isuch young men sex for love and can only do it with the person they really love. I respect this man for his principle. He has died for want of love from his loved one!

  49. BBC says:

    The article is very useless. Martin Malindi is the eye witness for what? Was he present the deceased was hanging himself? This is the reason why you have decided to disrespect the family of the deceased by publishing the photo of their loved one because your reporting has not been professional. This is the time we as Malawians should start familiarising ourselves with basics of law. Nyasatimes should apologise to its readers and family of the deceased. I blame myself for not practising law.

  50. chefourpence says:

    this is vioelnce against men! Men are suffering! Look at this! A faithful man like me! Dead because of bumbu! Koma mkazi ameneyo ali mkathu! Amabungwe chitanipo kanthu basi!

  51. Tengupenya says:

    The pix is gross, no attempt to hide identity. Shameful editorial policy.

  52. Nankungwi says:

    Theremust be more to it than this! one can live without sex! do you have to kill yourself? what a waste of a life!

    Girls dont indulge in pre maritla sex you did well to refuse young lady! Boys dont worry when you get marreid you get sex till it comes out of your nose! you cant die without it! conentrate on building your life!

  53. cristiano says:

    Hahahahahah stupid idiot fool useless man pano you burning in hell what a fool

  54. opportunist says:

    But how special is this girl .We got lots girls who looking for to have sex with at reasonable price others ulelenso

  55. Musakhale mutamuphatu! pakana eyewitness?

  56. francis says:

    Suicide is an act aggravated by the devil…he was not him but evil spirits. Rest in Peace and sorry to the deceased’s family. May God console….

  57. Palibe vuto loonesa cithunzi cakapeyu

  58. mapwiya says:

    Osangopukusa bwanji?mpaka kuzikhweza nkhani yake iti?nthawi zinatu azimaiwa amakhala ndi ma mood swings,ndiye safuna mbongeza,kumapilira anyamata ndi bwino.

  59. Wodzichepetsa says:

    Zili muchikondi simungazinvetse (sicreat ku bed)

    What we ppo say might be non of business that led to his death

  60. George Lihoma. says:

    Ena akulira ndi matenda kuchipatala kuona moyo ukuwathawa koma iwe hanging yourself for that. How stupid you are.Koma ndii zoonadi kuti wazikhweza kamba amakanidwa ndi chibwenzi or kalipo-kalipo.

  61. maName says:

    I always believe that masturbation should be part of the primary school curriculum. A lot of grief would be avoided that way. rape, suicide,waste of time courting stupid girls, aids, fights amongst boys, murder… all these would be avoided. What do you think?

  62. David Msapato says:

    Nyasa times this is very unprofessional, undignified and disgusting for you to put out a picture of a man who has killed themselves in a public on anline news. For what?? Sensationalism!!! You have to be embarrassed of yourself. You’ve gone so low!!!

  63. Kufa infa yowawa ndikukpsaso kumwamba, what a very bad decision did this person made! No regrets ngati wayambira kupsa immediately after his death.

  64. WHAT IS THIS —- WHY THIS.

  65. jema says:

    i dont have the power to judge him koma ndadandaula coz akanandifusa ndikanamuuza kuti azimayi atchipa ku nsanje& chikwawa…k100 basi

  66. Pichi says:

    Remove this photo or else I will take you to court for publishing photos that causes public alarm. You did not even indicate that the article contains graphic images. This is a violation to the reader.

  67. just got says:

    Bodza Ili. munthu ungaziphe coz of sex starvation — mwatinamizatu apa

  68. poorest country on earth says:

    i guess nkaziyo ndi okoma heavy. kulitu azimayi kunjaku amafinyaa mgwalawu ndi katundu wawo ngati kuti akufinya ndi manja.

  69. Wadabwa says:

    Koma anthu ena, zoona kukazipachika chifukwa cha maliseche a amkazi? AAaaaaaaaa ena ali makukamu wochita kuyitaniraaawa ngati maminibasi a kandikoleee shaaa

  70. gogoda says:

    Wa DPP ameneyi kkkkkk

  71. josephy mahere says:

    SIN AFTER SIN = HEROE

  72. King Zude says:

    Chitsiru chamunthu…

  73. Doctor says:

    Useless headless being you are. Stupid thinking. Ndiye wapindula chani pamenepa??? Ku gehenako ukaapeza osakana sex umafunawo galu iweee.. Kuzunza makolo nkhani ya sex. Yu shud have tried masturbating you wud have saved your life atleast. Nyasi. Fare thee well!!! Mxiiii

  74. mboba says:

    Ndiye mai ako alire?kulibe mahule kumeneko?kafike bwino

  75. keke says:

    When a person is hanged, the blood will accumulate in its lower part: legs and feet. If the legs are filled with blood, the blood in the waist can causes an erection, entering the penis’s erectile tissue. As long as the blood is not clotted, the body must stay in that position to maintain the death erection.

    1. Maximus Decimus Meridius says:

      @ keke, are you talking from experience, lol.

  76. Phodogoma says:

    Ngati kuli mahule osakana ndiye ndi a ku Lilongwe. Ku ChiGwiri. Pa rest house ina ili ndi malo amene timawachula kuti pa KONA. Pamakhala ti anamwali tabwinobwino utsiku wonse. A Chewa kukonda kuchinda basi.Mpaka kuzikweza. Munthu wamwalira chimbolo chili ngungu kutota. Anyway, sorry, rest in peace.

  77. Parallel Market says:

    Whats wrong with the picture? If one decides to hang himself on a tree did they mind dignity? Such acts are always shocking to the world and everybody becomes anxious yo see the picture. Inu ma pictures mumaona aja angafanane ndi imeneyi? Dont blame the journalist who brought this issue here. This man deserve our sympathies for being subjected to that.

  78. Bigdwag says:

    I make no apologies to say that this guy was a FOOL BIG TIME!! I mean Malawi’s population is made up of 52% women and 48%men! So just one woman said no, he could get to convince another one to say yes? Beats me!!!

  79. Nyambitoni says:

    the one who took the picture must have guts! but please Nyasatimes, remove the photo!

  80. Tentacles says:

    Sheeeeeeeee! RIP..

  81. James Matekenya says:

    Fools, how can you post an image lke this one? this person had relatives and friends, uncles, brothers, sisters. I will never read this bull shit

  82. Che Shaibu says:

    This girl is well brought up and principled!
    Keep it up!

  83. Najere Chitekwe says:

    That is being insensitive. You could have written the story without the picture. Remember, he is someone’s son, brother, cousin etc Do what you would love other to do unto you. Iwe ungakonde mbale wako being paraded atadzikweza choncho. And nkhani yoti wadzikweza because of being starved of sex is not verified. Only authentic suicide note can confirm that. Otherwise zinazo….just rumors. God forgive you

  84. MBC Employees turned Mungomo / GloriaSlaves says:

    HE APM please deliver MBC Employees from the greedy, selfish & demonic jaws of Aubrey Sumbuleta, Albert Mungomo & Gloria Namadanisa- Banda and the puppet Board Chair. Even all directors are now turned to inert fat cats, are force to endorse any controversy or face what happened to Dr.Benson Tembo. MBC employees are burning with fury especially in the programmes were Mr & Mrs are running the department as their personal estate.

  85. pichi says:

    Whatever your agenda is, Nyasatimes what do you think relations of the deceased will feel like upon looking at such a graphic photograph. Kumakhala ndi umuthu sometimes. Human life is so sacred have respect.

  86. Kanyimbi says:

    Za chisoni kwambiri. Ife akatikaniza timapita kwa mahule. Mahule sakana bola kondomu osaiwala.

    1. freespch says:

      Kondomu imasefeka mufa

  87. ABITI says:

    CHITSIRU

  88. manyasa says:

    On his shirt ” Pitala”

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