In the Holy Bible, Romans 14:4 : “Who are you to pass judgment on the servant of another? It is before his own master that he stands or falls. And he will be upheld, for the Lord is able to make him stand.”
In my life growing up I never really understand people that sit down and throw stones on another person, a lot of people that are struggling in life to fight their own demons are those that are so bitter, angry, unhappy about other people’s achievements,they will always find a fault in everything and try to bring down others around with them.
I am so disappointed to read and watch people making foolish of themselves by bullying the girls that contested Miss Malawi Ireland. Those that are writing bad reviews are parents, mothers and fathers, with bad past and history following them, I can never judge because I know my past and I know where I am going.
I read unspeakable things about these young beauty queens, it has been difficult for them trying to understand why how things end up like this. I as a Malawian woman as one of the judges on Miss Malawi Ireland I am defending the winners because they all deserved to be where they are.
And for GraceDehora Phiri, 20, the reigning queen, she is smart, her background check is great ,well behaved, great manners, well spoken ,intelligent in fact she is Miss Malawi Ireland.
I believe God just used this platform for her to be able to educate people about bullying, all I can say to Grace is, wake up each , morning and thank God for who you are, what you have became and don’t change for anybody you are wonderfully made.
I personally will support you and I will be with you all the way till you fulfill your purpose as beauty queen.
Look all the negative words as your project,your strength and your weapon to be better,hold this word of God Close to you.
Pray for their forgiveness
Make sure to forgive everyone who offended you all beautiful young ladies.I know Forgiveness is a very difficult thing to deal with. Depending on what someone has done to you girls. The Bible is the perfect tool to help inspire and give us direction.
We do not only forgive for others to make them feel better, but also to help our spiritual growth. As beautiful ladies that you are choose to live with the love of God as the purpose of your lives, without forgiveness this is not possible. We are all sinners and we should forgive others when they sin.
All the best to all Malawian powerful young ladies.
I have started a hashtag for #Ihavenozerotoleranceforbulliesinmalawi please help me share and also let us all create awareness for this hashtag to stop the bullying.