Kaliati offers Mzuzu women ‘sex tips: Malawi minister slurs ex-First Gentleman

Minister of Gender Patricia Kaliati Wednesday took advantage of her political whistle stop tour in Chibanja ward, aimed at mobilizing support for Democratic Progressive Party (DPP) aspirant George Manda, and lectured women on the importance of giving “good sex” to the husbands.

Kaliati: Sex-talk minister

Kaliati: Sex-talk minister

Like in a classroom, Kaliati said it was because Malawian women were not free with their husbands that the men were “outsourcing the same services elsewhere.”

She told hundreds of women at Mbawemi Women’s Group, a community based centre that has an orphan care and also supports vulnerable children in Chibanja, that couples must “be open to each other.”

Kaliati repeatedly said women must offer “good sex,” adding “sex must be done with lights on and candles light on.”

The Minister said couples should strive for adventurous moments to enjoy the sexual life.

Added Kaliati: “Don’t eat in the dark.”

The minister, who survived cabinet shake-up by President Peter Mutharika on Monday, did not spare men saying they “leave the best in their homes and eat rot from elsewhere.”

She advised couples to go for Voluntary Counselling and Testing (VCT) frequently in order to curb the HIV/AIDS pandemic.

“If we’re HIV positive, let us be good enough and make sure that it ends on us. Let us make our next generation HIV free. Let us love our children and children’s children,” she advised.

She said women must go for regular screenings for cervical cancer, to avoid excessive damage.

Returning to men, Kaliati accused former president Joyce Banda’s husband of not setting a good example to fellow men when he was the country’s first gentleman.

“He did not even organize bawo for fellow men to play so that they don’t rape our minors,” said Kaliati.

She commended present first lady Gertrude Mutharika for the Beautify Malawi (Beam) project, saying that is what “first gentlemen and ladies in this country must do.”

Talking politics, Kaliati reiterated DPP regional governor Kenneth Sanga’s calls that people of Chibanja must “vote a DPP candidate or forget about development in the region.”

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Winston Msowoya
I have been wondering as to why our beloved mother Malawi has drifted into a jungle of fools and laughing stock of the world.I did not know or think that our so- called Ministers are buffoons and idiots who have established themselves as non-starters among our disgruntled citizens. How on earth a senior Cabinet Minister could shamelessly and arrogantly demean our dignified mothers in front of the children typically against our well established traditions.P.Kaliati looked well dressed and cream furnished body amidst wreched local women she addressed.Really,talking about sex infront of young people portrays the poor qualities of the so… Read more »

Ya well she made point she is bringing Tsimba right in the door steps of the Northern women Who by her understanding they are lacking sexual orientation but waste much time on Education. Good thinking Madam minister.

Bawo Madness

Why should Richard Banda teach bawo at all. This is something that does not exist in his village at all. It reminds me of the teaching nyau paradox leveled against northern teachers in the late ’80s by the then ruling MCP. Why use a similar useless allegory again against the same people you want to victimize once again?


Mr Real Northernor, ma babie ophweka to fuk here in twn a those from North. This includes married northern women. I know, with regrets i hav punched some northern married woman, on top of others tht i know sm guys are fuking hard! As if this is not enough, two northern guys akudyerananso ma babie, boil fr that matter. Osamanamizana, kumpoto kuli chigololo koopya and u need sex education more than anyone else.

George Mkandawire

Munthu wa nzeru amapanga za nzeru, woputsa amapanga zoputsa and mtengo uli umadziwika ndi zipatso zake


Koma yaaaa plez don’t combine government issues and party issues mayi bongololo sadzorera mafuta pa gulu plez mupeze malo omanenera ziMenezo osati palipose


Anthu mumadana ndi chilungamo apa kweni sakunama ayi anthu ambiri akufa kwambiri chifukwa chachiwelewele .

samuel Nyapala

Tiye nazo Kweni wa ku Chilimankhwanje



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