Meshogate: Kasambara tips, Wonderfold Bengo adds humour
A text chat between a married and a senior banker alleged to be Henry Kamowa of Malawi First Merchant Bank and the receptionist believed to be an extramarital affair has taken center stage in social network in Malawi.
The conversation between Kamowa and his ‘ girlfriend’ Ellen went viral on social network after his wife with the help of the receptionist’s boyfriend emailed their romantic chats when they discovered they were bring cheated.
Kamowa who referred himself as ‘Mesho’ in the conversation is trending in Facebook and Twitter social media platforms with close to 80% of Malawi users talking about it.
However there are mix reactions from Malawians.
critics argues that the sharing of their phone conversation public is a major invasion of their privacy.
“The invasion of these people’s privacy is frankly disgraceful,” comment one lawyer on Twitter.
Prominent lawyer and former Minister of Justice, Ralph Kasambara attracted many comments on his Facebook Timeline when he weighed on the ‘Mesho-gate’. He also raised issues of privacy and went further to tip users on how they can retrieve Whatsapp conversations which have been cleared by the user.
Many hailed him for sharing the knowledge.
” Memory card formatting in progress,” Commented one of his friend James.
” If your girlfriend don’t trouble you for money, ask around. Ali ndi Mesho ameneyo” one tweeted @Ndingogunditsa.
One Tabitha tweeted: ” Why suffer when you can get a Mesho? “ And a tweet from Nyakwawa said ” you’re not a thief until they catch you, untill then be free to participate. That’s how our society works, #Mesho.”
The ‘Mesho-gate’ took a humourous twist when the trending Facebook satirist Wonderfold Bengo posted his comments. Bengo communicated his satire comments in rather broken English but hilarious
He wrote in his jokey English: “ Some persons when their phone is thiefed they weep very much.when you look at them and think ‘why weep like this.it is just phone.’ but now I know they weep for the because of many many ‘Mesho and Elen’ talks in the phone.”
Bengo went more comical to question about who “went them underground” in apparent reference to who invaded leaked their texts.
The unanimous public opinion is that, “there are many Mesho’s around”.
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KWACHULUKA NKUSAGWIDA!!!!!!!
May the Lord have mercy. There is no justification for cheating, we just ought to accept our weaknesses and repent.
koma Ellen wakeyo, or ine sinkadamudutsa kulibwino anidure mmasakalamento
Big up to Ulemu for the board decision you made to leave Mr Henry Kamowa. Much as the SDA church doesn’t advocate divorce, you couldn’t stay with him as the illtreatment was too much. How can a then SDA elder for soche for years, be beating up his wife for years much as he says he was born a difficult person to people who have talking to him about his issues. How can he even beat up his wife when the wife was carrying pregnancies of their two boys. As if this wasn’t enough, he also always has a string of girlfriends, likes using asing’anga. But he always begged her to stay, and begged her to come back. Who would do such a silly thing and risk dying? After years of Ulemu seeking help from SDA pastors, Mr Henry Kamowa just promised to change but never changed. Ulemu you did all you could, you are too beautiful to be abused. My advice is don’t get taken up with men who approach you, some of them will be exactly like Mr Henry Kamowa. Take your time. People around you know you are a faithful, well behaved, strong woman any reasonable man would want to have. Don’t out compete Mr Henry Kamowa, you are different..he has always had loose morals. All the best
Stupid Malawians.I like the name of the managing director of FMB though.its called Dikshit.How much dick is getting on other peoples wives and girlfriends and how much shit is being sifted in this bank???And then there is the name Kamowa!!! Really guys,are we surprised?The disgruntled wife and the useless boyfriend nawonso ayambe kudyana,Malawi is starving for such stupiness.Lets get it in good measure until we are suffocated by it.Shit,if God is watching and listening to this crap,let him punish Malawi right now.right now!!!!
Too bad, Mr Henry Kamowa zibwenzi zitakoma anapangitsa vasectomy last year, so he doesn’t impregnate girls….. Too bad.
Zamanyazi vuto siiwo koma chiri mwaiwocho ndicho chiri choipa
Those who have not sinned, let them cast the first stone…
adibwe basi
Comment 31 Nike
asiyeni njamani yanu
Ndani angapilire
All of you calling names to these guys are just jealousy. Henry Kamowa yu akudya katundu wa boo. Olo ndili ine sindikanachitira mwina. Enanu simungaloledwe ndi chick ngati imeneyi. Nayenso boyfriend aziona size ya thumba lake kaye before courting hi street girls like her. Ti asungwana ngati iti masiku ano ndi fashion yi tikufuna ma guy a dollar, kuwapempha airtime amakupatsa K10,000. Kukonza tsitsi amakupatsa K50,000. Osakhala ma yoo ntchito kukhwefula mulibe dollar.
sunabese bambamu imeneyo ndani angaisiye siye.. Enanu mungolankhula popeza mumasosola si nuyo.
Proverbs 6:20-7:27New International Version (NIV)
Warning Against Adultery
20 My son, keep your father’s command and do not forsake your mother’s teaching.21 Bind them always on your heart; fasten them around your neck.22 When you walk, they will guide you; when you sleep, they will watch over you; when you awake, they will speak to you.23 For this command is a lamp, this teaching is a light,and correction and instruction are the way to life,24 keeping you from your neighbor’s wife, from the smooth talk of a wayward woman.25 Do not lust in your heart after her beauty or let her captivate you with her eyes.26 For a prostitute can be had for a loaf of bread, but another man’s wife preys on your very life.27 Can a man scoop fire into his lap without his clothes being burned?28 Can a man walk on hot coals without his feet being scorched?29 So is he who sleeps with another man’s wife; no one who touches her will go unpunished.30 People do not despise a thief if he steals to satisfy his hunger when he is starving.31 Yet if he is caught, he must pay sevenfold, though it costs him all the wealth of his house.32 But a man who commits adultery has no sense; whoever does so destroys himself.33 Blows and disgrace are his lot, and his shame will never be wiped away.34 For jealousy arouses a husband’s fury, and he will show no mercy when he takes revenge.35 He will not accept any compensation; he will refuse a bribe, however great it is.
Warning Against the Adulterous Woman
7 My son, keep my words and store up my commands within you.2 Keep my commands and you will live; guard my teachings as the apple of your eye.3 Bind them on your fingers; write them on the tablet of your heart.4 Say to wisdom, “You are my sister,” and to insight, “You are my relative.”5 They will keep you from the adulterous woman, from the wayward woman with her seductive words.6 At the window of my house I looked down through the lattice.7 I saw among the simple, I noticed among the young men, a youth who had no sense.8 He was going down the street near her corner, walking along in the direction of her house9 at twilight, as the day was fading, as the dark of night set in.10 Then out came a woman to meet him, dressed like a prostitute and with crafty intent.11 (She is unruly and defiant, her feet never stay at home;12 now in the street, now in the squares, at every corner she lurks.)13 She took hold of him and kissed him and with a brazen face she said:14 “Today I fulfilled my vows, and I have food from my fellowship offering at home.15 So I came out to meet you; I looked for you and have found you!16 I have covered my bed with colored linens from Egypt.17 I have perfumed my bed with myrrh, aloes and cinnamon.18 Come, let’s drink deeply of love till morning; let’s enjoy ourselves with love!19 My husband is not at home; he has gone on a long journey.20 He took his purse filled with money and will not be home till full moon.”21 With persuasive words she led him astray; she seduced him with her smooth talk.22 All at once he followed her like an ox going to the slaughter,like a deer[a] stepping into a noose[b]23 till an arrow pierces his liver,like a bird darting into a snare, little knowing it will cost him his life.24 Now then, my sons, listen to me; pay attention to what I say.25 Do not let your heart turn to her ways or stray into her paths.26 Many are the victims she has brought down; her slain are a mighty throng.27 Her house is a highway to the grave, leading down to the chambers of death.
Those of you that are commenting without knowing the truth, you will see Kamowa having the last laugh. He has been on separation from him wife for a while and they were just finalising divorce papers in court. And the girl is not married although she has a boyfriend. So what prevents Kamowa from moving on and also Ellen changing her mind on her boyfriend (not husband). Mozilla Smallwood. Mxxiiiii
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Izinso ndiye ziti. No wonder its hard to find very old pple in Malawi. Vigororo va Chulukitsa. Hypocrisy. However this story is not newsworthy but then again this is nyasa net. Our online tabloid, hate monging, woman hating malawian opinion forum.
heheheh.
Shame on Ulemu, matama onse aja patawuni pano. Anyway I don’t know the whole story.
Receive the Lord Jesus Christ, there is a way that seems right unto a man, but the end thereof is in death……………………. END TIME!
Man this girl is too beautiful. Ukudya katundu wabwino protect her this time as she is facing humiliation .Am wishing u all the best move on with your life .
Inu a Kamowa, mwayalukatu apa. Palinso ulemu apa? Uchitsiru wokhalira mchiuno mwa akazi a eniake. Shame on you forever. You have been damaged by the social media. Media can destroy all fools like you. If you have a wife at home how do you feel with this madness of yours now. Your wife must leave you because you are not honest to her. Foolish married but cheating big foolish man.
Kasambara zoti he was a honourable minister ayi ndithu, gets involved in all nyasi available. Dirty rubbish man
A warning to all working ladies. This is a big shame and you will never hide forever,Uhule wanji wopita nawo ku office. Divorce this hule please. The husband must demonstrate that he is a man. Go and marry another one fast enough to shame this devil.
zanu mwapanira kapena mu Kusowa okukondani get a life palibe story apa
Palibe nkhani apa, Kamowa mtima mmalo.
aaaa asatinyase ife agalu amenewa akudziwana anthu akuyesa ife mazoba
Who is complaining about privacy? Lawyers. Why? Because 90% of them ndi akuba ndi mahule komanso ndi fedolisimu
nyasa give us current real news ie ebola economy soccer not this trash
Ndim’mene zinakonzeledwa ndi Mulungu. Chikondi chimayambira ngakhale pa Maliro ndizotheka
Ralph is so talented.he is almost good @ everything cashgate,he is involved,meshogate he is masterminder…
boil ndi boil basi. wina ndi mkulu wa ku candlex akuboilitsa tiananso koopsya. mutha
Yea alibo,mkwate!
Sirinali banja kuchita kuyalusana abare satelo iwe unakapeza wina koma pakana Pamenepo?
Amachita kuavalira mini abwana
Who posted this shitty article, Ralph Kasambara?
Kasambara is the original Mesho. Kungoti he has a wife who cant go anywhere so he keeps on being Mesho and can give tips because iyeyo he is safe. His wife cant leave koma enanu becareful ndi u mesho. You can lose wives and much more.
R k a prominent Layer (Mesho) pliz help them chaona nzako chapita mawa chili kwaiwe # Mesho Chaiiiii!
Why the noise about Henry? They are divorced with his wife. What did you expect him to do? He has the right to look for a girl of his choice whether within office or not. How many of you are not married within the same bank? Iyi ikhale nkhani poti ndi Henry Kamowa? Let him be free to choose his girl of his life coz the wife dumped him and now he is very and I repeat very very single. A Malawi! Bingu anakwatira Callista a former cabinet colleague. Pitala uyu wanyamula wake wosakongola Gertrude a fellow former parliamentarian. Brown Mpinganjira anakwatira Lizzie. Nde vuto lanu ndi chani ndi uyu Kamowa? After all the lady is very beautiful. Go on Henry Kamowa. Marry her coz you are single and she is also single now that the boyfriend has dumped her. I also suspect something fishy going on between Ellens boyfriend and Ulemus wife. Where and how did they meet to share this private whatsapp message? May be since both of them are single they can also marry
So you mean its wise kuti Henry shld take somebody’s wife? Man, mwangoonetsa kuti nzeru mulibe because you are failing to understand a straight-forward story like this one? Mayeso mungakhoze inu? I doubt if at all you have any academic certificate.
i can’t believe I wasted my time reading this nonsense.
Unofficial conversation yoo
This mesho gate is everywhere especially in working places…. be carefull especially if u r married n paid lobola!!!
koma come to think of bwana SC kasambara…….how are we supposed to think of u and ur wife ndi tip mwapelekayi? sindekuti nanu bwana mmafufuta?ndipo madam akawelenga izi amve bwanji?kaya poti family dynamics…….mwina nza bho bho in ur fam.i just feel sthn z wrong in that tip u gave…
and so are men
The issue here is the wife of Kabowa is unwise unless she has decided to leave him she is going to face the ridicule together with him. Social media has the boyfriend to expose the girl. Ladies its time u wise up by solving problems. What she has done is like telling pple that ur husband wets the bed but have 7 children with him. The wise should have exposed it to the husband. Am not trying to defend cheating husband since when they Ebola it kills the innocent wives & children suffer. Men zip up ur loose trousers & girls wear long dresses vuto ndiloti atsikanana akuphwefulira kumwamba.
Munthuyu amadya katundu wabwino,that’s Ellen Martinz
these hoez aint loyal.. .
Vuto la azimayi akumayenda ovulavula kale, even in offces, so what do you expect from them?
Just got rich, took a broke nigga bitch, and make a broke bitch rich,
these hoes aint loyal, oh no (singing)
The woman considering her age and mental strength needs services of a psychiatrists to clean up her mind. It is easier for the other alleged person to let go in his mind. For the other accused it is not easy. The gal should move on mentally and realise that the gossipers tend to enjoy scandlising other people than saying their private life.
Everybody has his or her dirty things which are hidden in the eyes of the world but our inner person knows them. The woman needs emotional support from the other female managers to rediscover her self esteem and confidence.
The bank should deploy her at the back office than entrusting her with frontline duties. This will enable her to re-organise herself, since she will be meeting customers directly. Life on the counter demands a great deal of undivided attention to detail to avoid cash differences.
We make mistakes in life higher the ‘mountain’ than this much talked story. We need love and care, so let no gossipers hurt your emotional feelings.
We all is said and done, there is nobody who can spend sleepless night thinking or meditating upon other people’s private life let alone this ‘leaked conversation’. We are all overwhelmed with our personal problems worthy mental energy consuming.
Let the depressed move on and not stuck in the pit of guilty or leaving in the past permanently. The present is always there to manage. Our God gives us a second chance than human thinking.
The talked persons should not be prisoners of their minds. Sometimes when you see people laughing, you tend to think you story is taking a centre stage and you wish the earth opens up and swallows you.
you are such a fucn nut, you are the one who needs the services of a psychiatrist.
Sakanachitira mwina……sanaipe namwaliyo
Koma mkaziyu ali mushe chita naye mesho! Kudya kumadya bola osaiwala tooth pick kuchotsa zotsalira.
be faithful. za umesho basop. when spouses catch each other in these matters you cannot predict wat action they will take. some have even killed or maimed their spouses. cheating is the biggest betrayal to ever happen to anyone. better philosophy is to be faithful.
zopusa basi!
That’s why I am still pondering whether to marry or have girlfriend; I don’t want to be embarrassed and disappointed by the only one I supposedly entrusted my life upon! Girls these days are just shit!
It is God who can provide you with your true love. You do this on your own, the probability of marrying the right one is close to none. If you want to marry, pray for that and surely our Lord Christ is merciful and will meet your needs.
RK is also a mesho to so many …for sure….
Wina mwa iwo ndi iwe, anakuviika nayo boil boil.