Court dissolved marriage of MASM official Ngomwa over ‘adultery, cruelty’

Beleaguered Medical Aid Society (MASM) top ranking official Andrew Ngomwa charged for defiling his 14-years-old niece was divorced from his second wife for adultery and cruelty by the High Court of Malawi, Nyasa Times can reveal.

Andrew Ngomwa

According to a matrimonial case number 6586 of 2017 court judgement by High Court Judge Justice Dingiswayo Madise dated 23rd July 2018, Andrew Madalitso Ngomwa had his marriage with Tamara Blessings Ngomwa dissolved because of adultery and cruelty on the part of Andrew Ngomwa.

According to the facts of the case presented in court, Tamara stated that her marriage with Ngomwa rocky because of the Ngomwa’s child from another woman and his nieces.

The court heard that the daughter would at some time stay with her mother and would return to her father’s house where she started claiming that Tamara was mistreating her together with Ngomwa’s nieces.

The court heard that Ngomwa then chased Tamara out of their matrimonial bedroom to the daughter’s room and eventually to the guest room and finally the servants’ quarters when Ngomwa’s daughter returned to her father’s house.

“Later the Respondent (Andrew Ngomwa) started bringing his girlfriend Blandina Dedza into the house. On one occasion the Respondent’s daughter had a birthday party and it was Blandina who organized the function. The girlfriend was actually given the Petitioner’s (Tamara’s) car to be using, while the Petitioner walked on foot,” reads part of the judgment.

Tamara told the court that one day upon returning home she found the garage door leading to the guest wing locked and her personal items had been thrown into the boy’s quarters and she was informed that Blandina had removed her items.

“On 18th June, 2017 she returned home and found that the main gate had been locked and she could not access the boy’s quarters. She then sought a protection order from the court which was granted on 20th June, 2017.”

“The petitioner tendered in evidence screen shots of Blandina obtained from her Facebook page showing Blandina in the Respondent’s bedroom. The other screen shot shows Blandina displaying a birthday card from the Respondent. This was actually posted on Blandina’s face book page. In response Blandina wrote on her face book page the following; ‘Thanx my sweetie Bae Andrew for the gifts. I don’t take these for granted u made my day. God bless u Hunnie!’,” reads part of the judgment.

Tamara also presented to the court a screen shot obtained from Blandina’s face book page showing her driving the her vehicle which Ngomwa said he had bought for Blandina.

Two witnesses testified on behalf of Tamara and confirmed to the court of a relationship between Ngomwa and Blandina.

But Ngomwa cross examination, admitted knowing Blandina as his daughter’s friend who was assisting her with school work.

“He further admitted that Blandina was driving the petitioner’s car as she was dropping off and picking his daughter to and from school. He further admitted that Blandina took a photo of herself (selfie) in his bedroom. The Respondent further failed to explain about the birthday card and the message thereon which was sent to Blandina on her birthday,” reads part of the judgement.

Justice Madise blasted Ngomwa for adultery and cruelty in his findings calling him ‘not man enough’ to handle his family affairs.

“Looking at the whole evidence I find without hesitation and on a balance of probabilities that Respondent did commit an act of adultery with Blandina. He must pay damages to compensate the petitioner for the embarrassment and mental suffering she endured due to the Respondent’s actions.”

“As for the cruelty, I find that by committing an act of adultery and removing the Petitioners personal items from the main bedroom, to the other room, then to the guest wing and finally to the servant quarters, the Respondent was cruel to the Petitioner. If he had stopped loving the Petitioner and wanted the marriage to end, he could have informed the Petitioner without degrading and dehumanizing her.”

“The Respondent was not a man enough to handle his family affairs and decided to call his relatives, nieces and servants to inflict emotional suffering on the Petitioner. In my considered view, I find cruelty and the Respondent must pay damages for his actions,” said Justice Madise in his judgement.

Justice Madise also said Ngomwa filed a cross petition on cruelty but said there was no evidence to substantiate his claim as he did not call his daughter or niece to testify how they were mistreated.

“I therefore find in favour of the Petitioner and I grant an order of divorce nisi plus cost of this action. I further order the Respondent to replace the car he had snatched from the Petitioner. It must be a car of a similar value to be determined by the Registrar,” said Justice Madise.

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Chindunguza Nyekhwe
Chindunguza Nyekhwe
1 year ago

This guy is really cruel and current issue of transmitting HIV to his niece, he should be jailed. Period.
Now it looks his sisters contributed to the collapse of his first marriage by sending their daughters there. Bow see what Ngomwa has devilishly done

Knight Templar
Knight Templar
1 year ago

Too bad she was handled with cruelty. Probably she also snatched the husband from another lady just to face this music. Any decent lady the moment the husband chases her from the main house would leave. But this one stuck on for three years mmmm she might be a gold digger. She knew that at the end of the day she would financially gain. Now just attacked when her abuser was the weakest. On the other hand this man needs serious prayers. Defilement case awaits him, he had a relationship with a daughter’s friend, ill-treated second wife, we dont know… Read more »

1 year ago

2018, that’s from the archives. I bet we did hear about it because it was none of our business. Let us focus on the current issue of child who couldn’t go to court like this woman. The issue of rape.
A lot of women are suffering because of status. I am married. Your husband tells you to sleep at the boys quarters and you still there? Stop relying on men and for sure this just didn’t come overnight.

1 year ago
Reply to  Chisale

Stop relying on men dont you know that being fucked by men is also relying on men if u dont know that?

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