Malawian corporate manager says DNA paternity test proves isn’t father to 4 children of Mirriam Ngwira
In a rare display of bravery in a closed society, a Malawian senior corporate manager, Michael Ngwira, has publicly revealed all four children he had always believed he fathered with his wife, Miriam, were actually not his.
This follows DNA tests he ordered for his children whose results said he was not the biological father of the children.
The supposedly cheating wife, herself a finance manager at an insurance giant, NICO General, has been living with Ngwira for many years as a couple and had four children between them-Hellen, Elton, Kamwadi and Lucy.
They are now on separation, according to Ngwira.
In a message addressed to ‘family’ but now viral on the social media in Malawi, Ngwira, who is former general manager at Leasing and Finance Company (LFC) says the ‘family’ is free to inform anyone about the issue because “there is nothing to hide.”
Ngwira writes: “You may have been hearing rumours regarding what is happening with my family. This message is meant to communicate the correct position of the situation.”
He reveals that he had decided to order DNA tests for his children on January 28, 2018 and that the results were given to them on March 1, 2018.
“I am sorry and deeply disappointed to inform you that DNA results have shown that I am not the biological father of Elton, Hellen, Kamwadi and Lucy Ngwira. As you would understand, we have a crisis in the family and as an immediate measure I have separated from Miriam while the parents discuss the way forward. Please pray for the children who shall be traumatised by this unwanted situation.
“It is our view that whoever is the biological father/s should be unmasked and be given the responsibility to look after his / their offsprings. You shall be updated regarding any new developments soon. I will send copies of the DNA results shortly,” writes Ngwira.
It is not clear what prompted him to order the DNA tests.
Another marriage crisis
In a related development, another marriage is on the rock in Chirimba in the city of Blantyre after the husband, a well-known engineer (name withheld) recently found incriminating WhatsApp text messages in his cheating wife’s mobile phone.
The wife is a member of the CCAP women’s guild (Mvano) and an administrator at one of the famous private secondary schools in the outskirts of the city.
She has had a steamy relationship with another man (name withheld) for a long time despite being happily married for almost 15 years.
According to the couple’s family friend privy to the issue, apart from enjoying the ‘forbidden fruit’, the wife and the man friend have been exchanging romantic texts and nude photographs until fate caught up with the woman slightly a fortnight ago.
“The other man’s wife alerted the Chirimba man that his wife was flirting around with her husband according to her own findings. The Chirimba man put his own traps and caught her read handed with some nasty evidennce of promiscuity,” said the source, declining to be identified.
She said the couple have three kids between them.
“The marriage is now in ruins. They are still staying together in their beautiful matrimonial home and the wife is still enjoying marriage ‘benefits’ like use of cars. But the husband has made it clear he has lost trust in his wife and it’s a matter of time that he seeks divorce. I think the children, who are still young, are the main hindrance to a speedy divorce,” said the friend, who is also a women’s guild member at the CCAP church that the couple goes to.
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Amenewo ndi akazi a ku Nkolokosa kwa a Nyirenda. Koma Bambo Ngwira munapanga kafuku fuku okwanira musanakwatirane ndi chikhebachi?
Ana 4. Shaaa. Koma iweyo umagwirako ntchito ndithu kuchipindako. Chinakukaikitsa ndi chani kuti mpaka DNA test. Guys what the woman has had done is 1. Men abuse, 2. Child abuse, 3. Womb abuse. Koma kukhotiko ndiye kukakhala kanthu. But people . Can the children not sue the farther here for causing their mother to cheat. kkkkkkkkkk Patricia Kaliati ayankhulepo basi
Kwatsala awo… kkkkkkk.moto upita kwatsala tchire akulu adanena
Time is the master.
Atumbuka once again shaaaa mtundu otembeleledwa. Mkazi uyu na mbwenumbwenu nayo mamuna wakwithu. Uchindere wakufikapo
CHOKA CHOSASAMBA IWE!!!!CHIMBULI!!!CHIMBUZI!!!
Bwana tu munalakwitsa zomwe mwapangazo ndi chimodzi modzi kugwira machende mkango ukugona. Inu mwakula you can’t start new lease of life. Anawo mwalakwira inunso mwazipepusa za ziiii. Mumakhala bwino bwino now everything is changed
A Ngwira mwaluza ana, mukakalamba anawa akanadzakugwirani dzanja coz the only Dad they know is u. I dont think they could have gone2their biological father.How do u know kuti kumene mupitako muberekaka ana?Aganizireni anawa mwakomedwa ndi chibwezi. The dad they know is u only&what have u done2them?Satana wakunamizani.Think twice&come2ur senses pls.Fast &pray over it God will guide u not the way u have taken it will take u nowhere.
It is sad that you went public too fast. I suggest you try other tests with different medical institutions. I gather in another country (name withheld) 60% of DNA tests revealed that children were born out of wedlock. Treachery world.
Micheal Ngwira, Mirriam Ngwira. soso. soso. APM, Goodall ndi Chaponda akukubelani. Athu opanda pake. Njala, Nthenda and Nsanje. NNN.
Mr Ngwira ndiosabeleka (gojo) infertile man that’s why the woman decided to do this. Mkazi anamulemekeza bambo uyu koma lero wachita chipongwe. He has now poured hot water upon himself. Mr Ngwira you will never find peace.
Childish comment.
Surely is payback period for one Mike Ngwira. Pa Poly anosokoneza zibwenzi zambiri zazake! Koma makomomu ndiye umangoti ana ndi anga. Ana amvekere dad dad innocently!!!!!!!!!!!!
LERO ZILI KWA AWO MAWA ZILI KWA IFE,. LEASON NO 1, MUSADZAPUSITSIDWE NDI MKAZI NGAKHALE ATANYAMULA BAIBULO, NDIBWINO KUNGOMUKONDA KOMA MUSAMUKHULUPILILE. IYE AMADYA NAPUKUTA PAKAMWA NATI SINDINADYE INE,AMENEYO NDIYE MKAZI NDIPO ALIPO AMBILI OTELOWO MOTI ENA NDIANUWO NDIPO TSIKU LINA MUDZADZIDZIMUKA ZITAKUCHITIKILANI; {FUSO} NANGA AMABUGWE AKUTIPO CHANI,KAPENA IZI SINKHAZA KU ABAMBO????
This man is not fit to be a father that’s why the wife looked elsewhere! how can you do this to the innocent children? why not just leave the wife and go without traumatizing the kids?
foolish man mpake amkakudyera uli pompo
kkkkkkkkkkk shaaaaa koma zoona mpaka ana 4?, komaso bwana Ngwira! mayitu anakubisani kuti musaziwikira zakusabereka kwanu kkkkkkk aaaaa mpaka ana 4 inu wanu palibepo ngakhale modzi yekha? bwana ndi inu osabereka ndithu
Kusabeleka ndi ulunali palibe zoseka. Kodi munthu akakhala olumala mati azipangidwa nkhaza ngati zimenezi? Kumugwiritsa ntchito yolera ana oti siake? Penapake tamaganizani. The wife wronged the husband basi.
You have handled this the wrong way Mr Ngwira. You may not be the biological father but those kids only know you as their father . How cold hearted are you really?! Those kids are your family sir! May God help you. The wrong one here is Mirriam not the kids.
I don’t blame her. First, the problem is that men have always forced women to be angels and compartmentalised women as either wives who are devoid of sexual feelings or for that matter mistresses (MG2) or prostitutes. Men have doubled up their wives with mistresses and have had the preserve of fathering children outside marriage and society has not put on them the burden of shame for having cheated. Secondly, there must be a problem with the man if the woman can have all these children with another man. Thirdly, one needs to question the DNA – sometimes people can arrange for DNA to be in their favour. I would not wholly trust the results. However, I do not blame the woman or any other women who are promiscuous because men should not think that they are the only one have the right to be promiscuous or choose multiple partners. I say this having seen innocent women infected of HIV.
Stupid you Banda or whoever chigoba u are.
tiyeni mukatigulire umodzi madala..!! Mukahotse nkhawa komaso tiyeni tikapane zikheba
These women are not fucking bitches shit because were covering impotent men. Apa anthuwa angokambirana kuti alele anawa basi. These men should be thankful because they had the privileged of being called dads
There is no married who has not had a secret affair in this generation. It’s sad but we have to accept it. Umati kumuona mwana nyumba iwenso nkudziwa kuti uyu siwanga kkkk basi umangokhala phee. Ifenso men we fuck around to much. We even go for married women. Zachitika apa zabvuta unlucky couple koma in so many houses anthu akulera ana oti si awo
These women are not fucking fucking shit but you men because were covering impotent men. Apa anthuwa angokambirana kuti alele anawa basi
Mamamamama…..! kulera komsekuja..kupita nawo ana kuchipatala usiku uja ? kulipira xool fees komse kuja, kuwagulira zovala komse kuja!!
lero nde muziti ana 4 onsewa si anga? mayi kalanga ine!!! ndalira!
the 4 hildrens original father should reimburse all of these!!! fokofu!!!!
Koma azimayi mpaka ana 4 onsewo osakhalapo mmodzi yekha wa bambowo ? azimayi mamatha mmmmm! pano can’t trust a lady anymore
In other words the man has realised that he is impotent and cannot manufacture children…..akalowamo angotulukamo………pamene wina akaponya chipolopolo ku gwetsa mpaka mwana……eish……ok. There are alot of things to read from these revelations.
Basi baba mwapata ana aulele, these are your children despite biological issues, act maturely akamati banja nlimafunika maturity nkhani zina zimakhala zimenezi. However, Mr Ngwira… your hands are also not clean, ife tikudziwa kuti muli ndi chibwenzi ndi hule ku Mpemba chomwe munachitsegulira business ya bottle store, nde iyiyi ndi draw game isakuwaweni. In other news… do you have children of your own (biological)?
This woman deserves death by stoning. She is very wicked.
@Salim.
It’s ignorant self-righteous bastards like you that deserves to be stoned to death. Who the f#ck are you to take a seat you can’t fit in? Your head is full of maggots. Bullshit.
Michael and Miriam’s had no been rosy all these years and it was no news to all that Michael was gojo and it was surprising kuti they started having children in the family. To us it was the Mirriam Nyirenda of Nkolokosa we know as a young girl. The good thing is that Engineer Ngwira worked so hard to educate Mirriam at MCA to become a chartered accountant. Ofcourse this one is a sad ending of chibale between the Nyirendas, the Ngwiras and the Chipetas
Hahahaha koma bambo ngwira Ku banja mumapangako chani??Mpaka 4-0.AS vita vs Be forward wanderers,away in kishansa..kkkkkk.APA no return leg..Zitsikeni bambo..Komanso mkaziyu is very evil mpaka 4-0???Kumenyetsa kwa mtundu bwanji kumeneko??Basi I will stay single for the rest of my life..eeeeeish.
In Kenya, in a study done a few years ago, they found that around 60% of surveyed fathers were in fact fathers of their first born children. The situation of the Ngwira’s is very unfortunate but could have been avoided. Cheating on a husband to the extent of getting impregnated and making the husband believe the pregnancy is his is a great insult. In fact, it is not being smart because the child is walking evidence. But then men also cheat and sire children outside marriage (I will not be surprised if father of these children is not a married man), though two wrongs do not make a right. The greatest losers are the children. Lord have mercy on them.
Koma mtima ukawawa palibenso kuganizila za munthu wina, nchifukwa chache anthu ena amakazikhweza ndi nkani za m’banj
If any man is privileged to be given the responsibility to raise a child, then they should should consider themselves lucky. Children are a gift from God aleleni if asked to. Can you imagine if all men and children had to ask for paternity tests; it would be a disaster. More than half of happy marriages and families in Malawi will collapse. If you don’t trust your partner just divorce but don’t use results of paternity tests as a basis for divorce…..the kids will only suffer from ridicule. In anyy case what makes all of us think that we were born from the fathers who raised us. Remember that even the DNA tests have proven not to be 100% accurate!
This Woman is a prostitute
Do not judge.. If Mirriam doesn’t agree with the results, she can demand a redo of test. What if there was an error?
Michael this should have been discussed between the two of you and separate quietly without shaming the children and shaming yourself. While Mirriam did something wrong, the children are not party to this wrongdoing so no need to shame them. If this was not shared to the public, as a family you could have shared this privately with the children at some point and the children would appreciate, forgive the mother, forgive the biological father, and love the caretaker (Michael) more. If you took this direction Michael, what do you lose?
Izi a Malawi ndiye ma comments!
Women are truly snakes! They will always cry and play victims and calling men dogs, forgetting they’re the most unfaithful, crooked and secretive creatures in the world. I’m glad they call us [men] dogs because dogs are loved by many and dogs are true friends of people. The way they protect their masters is the same way that a man was instructed to protect his wife. So yeah you can call me a dog and i accept it but know that you women are snakes and no-one would keep a snake in their rooms. So when us dogs [men] take you snakes [women]and put into our homes, we take a big risk. fucking bitches!!!!!!!!!!!
that’s why Fredokiss nayimba kuti ‘sindikwatira’ kkkkkk more fire Fredokiss
Chokwawa chinakumana ndi chozemba. Harvesting time for one, Mike! A guy who could manage 3 girl fiends at Poly in 1990s at one go.. Pano mmkazi wamunonetsa mbwadza. Yobwezera kuwawa. Hard luck Mike.
Aliyense ku school amatha kumaphaka ma chick angapo, after that we all get settled hence marrying. You can’t compare life ya ku school ndi pa banja, here the wife is a snake and deserves kusiyidwa basi
In most cases those who amass a litany of women have a problem. They want to prove a point upon realising that they fire blank bullets.
Mr selfish man, what you have done does reflect well on your level of maturity as a
father and head of the family. The level of trauma you have inflicted on the four children is more grave than you realizing the truth. Indeed your wife would have cheated on you but the best and mature way you could have done was just to end the marriage without shaming yourself and your children. I know looking at what you have done, this truth has also triggered trauma in you but there is nothing you can do but to accept this truth and move forward with another person in life.Koma zinazinso! Ukawona kamba anga mwala.
Ma big mumangopanga makani koma akazi anuwo ndi mahule