Man hangs, couldn’t keep up with girlfriend sex demands
Persistent demands by a girlfriend to have sex has forced her boyfriend to commit suicide as he could not take the bother anymore.
Malawi Police said the 18-year-old-boy hanged himself to death in Zomba because he did not want sex with his girlfriend before marriage.
The deceased has been identified as Matias Kamwendo from the same district.
Police said a suicide note found on him says he decided to hang himself after his girlfriend was always demanding to have sex which he said was not prepared to do, citing ‘sex before marriage is a sin.’
Meanwhile, a 47-year-old man has died in Mponela, Dowa today after drinking village-distilled gin, locally known as kachasu.
He apparently drank on an empty stomach.
Mponela Deputy Police spokesperson Macpatson Msadala has identified the deceased as Sendelesi Tambala, from Kawale village in the area of Traditional Authority Kayembe in Dowa.
Tambala was pronounced dead at Mbingwa Health Centre.
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Brethren of Malawi, I have read your comments. They make good reading to one such as I who, though not accustomed to condescend on the line of thinking of others, must this time disagree with most of you.
The ineptitude you display on the topic of suicide, brethren, would baffle a cow. It is with a heavy heart that I, Nkhumpig, member of the association of knowledgeable humans, blessed with the power to piece 2 and 2 together, hereby pronounce to you, my unequals, this well-thought analysis.
Forget the suicide note, Brethren. People commit suicide mostly because of severe depression. The issue he attributes as the cause for his suicide is just a symptom of deeper troubles that he was going through. His excessive religiousness too os a symptom of a deep, endless sadness. With or without the issue in the note, this boy was on the path to that end. He suffered excessive sadness.
Are we together, brethren?
Government, invest in shrinks and educate people to seek help.
That girl must have been hot
The amount of comments showing a lack of sympathy for this tragedy is astounding.
Titumizireni ife mtsikanayo timupwale athawe iyeyo awone!
The problem of having too many unregulated good for nothing prophetic churches, young people are fed with nonsense in these churches that is why they cannot reason soberly, all this trash is because of these lazy bastards masquerading as prophets who are spoiling the minds of young ones, just to brainwash them to give out their hard earned money to them while in the process damaging the entire reasoning system, bloody bastards!
Stupid thinking….mateenagers enanu kuchititsa manyazi kwabasi……ingakhale nkhani yozikhwezera imeneyi…….mwamuna ameneyo? Anthu timakhala ndi mavuto eni eni….kepereka mimba kwa mwana wamfumu, ali leader wa Praise Team, akazi ako ali mayi wamvano koma membala wakwayayo, abusa nkuyidziwa, iwe kumakayambitsanso nyimbo pamaliro a azakhali ake amtsikanayo! Kuzikhweza kuthandiza chiyani, moti mtsikanayo mthupi mumavutamo pano chimwamuna china chodziwa ntchito chamuthandiza kale pano pomwe iwe wapita koma mwamachimonso….kuzikhweza…nchifukwa chake atsikana amafuna baamuna okhwima maganizo osati zomakana UDINDO…..kuli koti mukuwopa ntchitoyo….
I think there is more to this story, it is not making sense at all.
The boy who hanged himself says sex before marriage is sin well said, how about hanging oneself?
The boy was impotent. You can not run away from sex (which is sweet) and then hung yourself.
Zoona. What kind of boy can refuse a girl?
Hiding behind church. Aaah
This stupid boy hanging himself. Who forced him to propoz a girl?? Was he not knowing that oneday sexual feeling will push them to have sex?? These duties needs matured persons not teenagers.
There’s more to this story. If committing adultery is sin. Is taking ones life not sin?
Anyway mental disorders are a serious concern.
If it was the girl who has died the who country would have been baying for the boy’s blood. That’s an innocent boy pushed to his death by a girl. GBV at its best.
This is very dis-heartening… All n all, committing suicide is NOT a solution.. giving others unnecessary busy.. FOOLS!
Pumbwa weni weni. So suicide is not sin?
So, hunging yourself is okay? Why not end the relationship?
Obviously a lot of people don’t understand depression and anxiety… The woman was giving him pressure to do what he didn’t want to do… Its okay for men to say no to sex if they are not ready for it.. The woman should have respected the man’s beliefs and values.. Sex coersion is illegal… Maybe she was threatening to end the relationship if he kept refusing… The woman seems to be a bully and controlling.. Obviously she was the wrong woman for him. If this happened to a woman a man could have been blamed and arrested… There is no shame in being suicidal… If anyone has suicidal thoughts please talk to someone you trust or a doctor or seek counselling please.. Talk to someone who would understand… Every problem or issue is big to the one who is going thru it… So we can’t say we went thru real or big issues than this guy… To the one who has died I say people don’t understand but God understands you.. May you rest in peace.. I empathise with you..God will comfort your family
This is shallow thinking sex before marriage is sin true but terminating your own life is sin too. The only difference is that the sin of adultery there is a room to repent whilst the latter not.
The girl should be arrested forthwith. If it were a girl who has hange herself alot of noise would have been made calling for the arrest of the boy. This is gender based violence at it’s best. And the boy has continuously been raped.
I find it difficult to believe , killing yourself coz of persistent sex request , how long had they been together
He refused to commit a sex sin inorder to commit a suicide sin. Very interesting. We leave all to the Creator