Pastor Esau Banda urges ‘quality and tantalising sex’ for better marriages

Lilongwe-based Pastor Esau Banda handed out sex tips to married couples, saying sex should be “tantalising” and of good quality to keep marriages happy.

Pastor Esau Banda: Hands out tips marriage couples can achieve sexual satisfaction

The Senior Pastor for Pentecost International Christian Centre (PICC) said in his sermon monitored on Times Radio that married men should be taking care of their wives sexually and not think of other women out there, saying wives should also give it all.

“Give each other quality and tantalising sex,” he said with his characteristic mix of humour and Scripture.

He said God created sex to be a bond between a husband and wife that strengthens over time.

The charismatic preacher urged couples to strengthen their unions through good sex and double up the amount of intimacy they have in marriage.

He said the sex-starved marriage is a root cause for problems.

In the Holy Bible, 1 Corinthian 7: 5 says: “do not deprive each other sexually –except when you agree for a time, to devote yourselves to prayer.”

Pastor Banda said couples can get some of the books he has written which talk about marriages. He has written 35 books which are cross-cutting ranging from marriage, academic excellence, success, hope, breakthroughs, the Holy Spirit and leadership among others.

But Senior Pastor Banda said books that talk about good marriage are titled; Straight talk on marriage, Forgotten practises in Marriage, Building an excellent marriage and Safeguarding your marriage.

“In these books you will find sections where we have talked about how marriage couples can achieve sexual satisfaction,” he said.

One worshipper told Nyasa Times that it’s a good avenue to educate some married couples “because some holier than thou men and women who view sex as dirty or sinful might change after hearing it from a pastor.”

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Justice Usiwa
Justice Usiwa
1 year ago

He just want to show and tell his congregation that he is better at sex.Sex schools are natural and even wild animals do not need training on that, apart from food hurting and collection.

GODFEARING PERSON
GODFEARING PERSON
1 year ago

The verse referred here is quoted out of context. It has nothing to do with ‘quality sex’. The main issue of the quoted verse is ‘prayer’. Do not cheat people that God created sex to bond husband and wife, where is it written in the Bible? Musamunamizile Mulungu. Please do not mislead people. What you are teaching people only encourages sinful life in churches. Shame to such pastors!!

APM akundiyamwa shaft 🍆👅

You sound like someone who can’t Fuck good

Wisey
Wisey
1 year ago

The two shall become one flesh from the book of Genesis. What does this mean GODFEARING?

Jane
Jane
1 year ago

as if he is good in bed himself

Wisey
Wisey
1 year ago
Reply to  Jane

munamuyesako?

Mandala
Mandala
1 year ago

Iwe ”apm akundiyamwa ”
I have never read a stupid and useless comment like this . Anyway it only shows how you were born and raised by your late father.
Actually most such comments do come from the children who are born out of WEDLOCK and mostly never even did good at school. SHAME ON YOU

Eduardo, Provincia de Niassa
Eduardo, Provincia de Niassa
1 year ago
Reply to  Mandala

Absolutely true or from a street child.

APM akundiyamwa shaft 🍆👅

Iwe Eduardo don’t play with fire. I can Fuck you up with my comments and make you feel like you’ve been slapped with Jesus’ dick

APM akundiyamwa shaft 🍆👅

Tiyeni tichinde tikodzere mu dzina la yesu

Mandala
Mandala
1 year ago

Iwe ndimwana wotembeleredwa ndiponso imfa yako idzakale yowawa kwambiri .

APM akundiyamwa shaft 🍆👅
Reply to  Mandala

A Mandala mumachindana ku thako ndi yesu ndiye mwakwiya because ndanyoza bae wanu

ndadabwa
1 year ago

am sure ndiwe wa khalidwe la chinyama. ndipo udziopa ukamachula dzina la Yesu ungatembeleredwe nazo

Mabvuto
Mabvuto
1 year ago

That’s why you go out with Church Members you the pastor’s kkkk

Mandevu
Mandevu
1 year ago

Bwana pastor , muyambe mwatitandidza pa nkhani Yotota kaye .

chiomba nkhanga
chiomba nkhanga
1 year ago
Reply to  Mandevu

kkkkkkk koma

MOgul
1 year ago

this kind needs illustrations live wire —

Sex matters
Sex matters
1 year ago

One can only conjecture!

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